Recent content by VANCAM1

What is the name of your state? CA Do you need to be legally separated before a divorce? If so, does that mean that the divorce papers I filed will mean nothing? we were married for 5 years, one child.

What is the name of your state?CA I thought that I once read that visitation can be filed for a half sibling. my husbands current military duty is going to be longer than originally expected and the bio mom will not let the child visit. mother was granted temporary custody in my husband...

What is the name of your state?CA My husband is a military reserve and will be done with all training in a few weeks .He will now only serve one weekend a month. He had full custody of his son prior to leaving and will have been gone for almost six months.will getting an attorney help in getting...

My husband was awarded sole legal/physical custody of his son and two days later the mother filed for child support in another county. He sent the second county copies stating that he has custody and that the original county has juristiction and he will not send his arrears payments to them.My...

What is the name of your state? CA If there is no current child support in one county yet a court date is still set in said county can the CP file for child support in another county? The current child support order is $0.00

The father does have the right for his children to have his name. If you do give the child your current last name and he takes you to court to have it changed then it will be way more complicated than naming the child that in the first place. If the father is going to be in his life then it wont...

I have sole custody with visitation reserved to whatever I want to give. If I were trying to scam, I would have tried to leave the order as is.

I will tell the judge about the boot camp since you all advise it. The judge has not set the 50/50 order that we agreed to. The mother wants to change it so she will probably piss off the judge first. There is a waiver that she signed stating that she is aware that she will not be getting paid...

The mother was proven unfit the first go around in court earlier this year but when she realised that she would not be getting her TANF she took me back to court hoping for full custody. I want my child's mother in his life so I agreed to 50/50 custody. I could only join the reserves because I...

I have not been to court since I joined the military. I was not planning on telling the judge unless it is necessary.

What is the name of your state? CA I have court this month. I will leave for boot camp in mid November. In mediation, we agreed to a 4 mo temp order of 1 week, 1 week 2 dinners during the off weeks that the judge has not set. I have sole legal physical custody now. The NCP mom stated tha she...

What is the name of your state? CA My child's mother didn't show up to court and told me to tell the judge whatever I wanted so I got sole legal and physical custody. I did't tell her for a few months but she found out when she tried to collect TANF in another county and was denied. She is...

i didn't even know my sons doctor but his mother slipped up and sent a bottle of medicine with him. I called the doctor on the bottle and got a copy of his immunizations. He is only 2. Can I get a birth certificate with only his shot records? I am not on the birth certificate. Paternity has been...

What is the name of your state? CA I have full legal custody but the mother still wont give his records. I need my sons birth certificate or shot records to get a new one ASAP. We are going to court on Sep 13 for visitation for his mother, but I need it now. can I file an OSC Ex-Parte to get it...

What is the name of your state? CA I felt pressured to make a decision during mediation and now I regret it. Can it be changed? Our court date is in a month. I agreed to alternating weeks w/2 days 4-8pm on off weeks. I now see a problem. I am not available @ 4pm. I had sole custody, will this...