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Tennessee.
I am asking this for a friend. OK here is the deal. They have joint custody but mother has primary residential. She smokes pot in front of the kids along with more drugs and alcohol. Sometimes she is nice enough to send the kids to their room or outside but they can't be hidden from...
Tennessee....
OK here goes.... The father and I have joint custody (Me being primary residential custodian). He is court ordered to get the children every other weekend. From here that is right at 1.5 -2 hours away. I have been taking our children down there for the visits but he never shows. I...
This has gone too far. I appreciate the good advice and I thank each of you for your help on the matter at hand. Hopefully I can get visitation modified or the NCP will HOPEFULLY just do as he should. rmet.. you can think whatever you want I could really care less about your opinion from what...
Yes you are right. While we lived 5-10 minutes away he still would not show up or even call. His mother would stop by MAYBE once a month to catch what was going on just to go back and twist things around starting trouble.
I had him taken back to court for non-payment of child support. He then...
Well I have posted what is going on and you can believe it to be the truth or not. :rolleyes: You never stated if you were in fact a male or female and I assumed you to be a male. Wo0oah My bad.. As far as the OP he refuses to discuss ANYTHING with me. I have tried and tried to get him...
I believe I have learned already that rmet.. has all the right to post his opinion. As to I have my right to completely ignore it because he has no clue of which he speaks because he don't know or refuses to believe the situation at hand.
As to sending him this letter, How would I go about...
Thanks TSGTSWIFE I will definately check into that to see if there is any help I can get.
RMET.. again I say if you would actually go off of what is actually happening instead of you ASSUMING that I am like those women who MUST control everything that happens to their kids. I am NOT like that...
Is there anyone that knows possibly how or where I can go to see if it is possible to obtain help from legal aide? I am close to Clarksville TN. if that helps. Thanks and I would just like to thank all of you for the helpful advise and I plan on keeping everything documented if for no other...
Thanks for the feedback and Thank you Casa.
rmet... I have taken responsibility for my move and I show up there each weekend and for the scheduled holidays. I also have to sit our children down and lie to them stating that maybe their dad was sick or just working late as to why he did not show...
Would I still need to get this in writing even though my mother also attends court each time we go?
rmet4... I created this distance for what I felt was best for all of us and he added to this distance when he moved the other way. The meeting place is still the same so I understand and I take...
Dang you guys are QUICK!!!..lol... I do have my mother ride with me EVERY time I go there to meet him. Thanks Casa, and The only way I knew that they did not have food where they were staying is because the NCP's grandmother and aunt lives beside his mother where he drops them off and they have...
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.... sorry computer crashed. I am court ordered because he CLAIMED that I did not allow him to see them when he had every chance he just never showed up for the visits as at the time he refused to pay child support. He only ask to see the kids once we go to court over child support and...
That's just it... I do document EVERYTHING. I even write down where the children stay when they are gone to their dads because his own family calls me with concerns for where they are and even if they have something to eat. See both of us have moved since our divorce and I sent him the proper...
Tennessee,
OK here goes yet again... ok NCP did not see our children at all last year,atleast as far as visitation goes, on HIS OWN CHOICE. We then lived MAYBE 10 mins. apart. Well now that I have to drive 2 hours to exchange the children to him he wants them. Or does he? We went to court and he...
Just something to think about.
My fiance is in the army and is on call 24/7. Does that mean that he should not be allowed time to see his children JUST IN CASE he were called into work? It's NOT an easy thing to know that your children are with people YOU don't know. The thing of it is that you...
Just to add... In a courts eyes, child support is considered as contact with a child. So he has in fact kept in contact with this child. If you try to keep him from seeing the child even though you accept the support he send this will NOT look good in court. Once paternity has been proven to him...
I understand your concerns but can I ask if the reason for him being deployed also a factor as to why he has not contacted your children? Has he paid child support? Because if so that is still a means of contact. Sucks but thats the way it is.
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Ok I have went to take the children there for 3 visits and he did not show. I went this last time and the kids were excited about finally seeing their dad because he was late but they managed to call me about 5 minutes before I was about to leave the place of exchanging the kids. I...
Sorry but I WISH that was all some of us had to worry about. Seems like your daughter does not like this woman and is nit picking at EVERYTHING she does. I understand i ONLY know what has been wrote on the short thread but come on now.. She rolled her eyes at your daughter?? lol. I Guess I abuse...
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