16 year old get spousal support?

[rmet4nzkx]

I came on here to ask for advise from lawyers or someone who knows the law.....all I seem to have got is a lot of people telling me what a bad parent I am ....I love my daughter and I dont claim to know everything........If you knew how many times I regretted the decision I made to allow her to marry so young....now Im trying to pick up the pieces and go on with our lives.....that is why she is back home with me...before they were married ..they threatened to run away if I didnt let them be together and she has before several times....I was afraid she would follow through again ...It was a mistake I have to live with ........but he shouldn't get off with nothing......if it werent for him none of this would have taken place ....I feel he should give her something for the two years she cooked and kept house for him .....My daughter will always have a place with me when she needs it.......bad parent or not......most of it is just personal moral standards.....so quit judging me by what you think is moraly correct.

Look several of us gave you the NY alimony laws, the only way she can get alimony is to file for divorce and petition the court for alimony, she may have grounds for at least tempoary alimony but nothing will happen if she doesn't file for it.

 

[somedude]

are you kidding me with this crap???

If you knew how many times I regretted the decision I made to allow her to marry so young....now Im trying to pick up the pieces and go on with our lives.....that is why she is back home with me...before they were married ..they threatened to run away if I didnt let them be together and she has before several times....I was afraid she would follow through again ...It was a mistake I have to live with ........but he shouldn't get off with nothing......if it werent for him none of this would have taken place ....I feel he should give her something for the two years she cooked and kept house for him .....My daughter will always have a place with me when she needs it

You've got to be freaking kidding me!

Hey mom: What part of SHE WAS 14 AND YOU ALLOWED IT do you not understand????? You gave her/them your permission. YOU should be blaming YOURSELF and NO ONE ELSE! Your response is a clear example of one contradicting themselves.

You said you want to "pick up the pieces and go on with our lives." THEN FREAKING DO IT!!!

Then you say he shouldn't get with nothing? WHY NOT!? WTF was she going to do at 14? Most employers won't even hire a kid under 16 because what they can do is so limited by child-labor laws & the restriction of hours they can and can not work, it's not even worth it. I realize that some places DO hire under 16, but they are extremely restricted. Obviously she did all she could do: cook and clean the house.

You could've said "NO!", but you didn't. STOP PASSING THE BLAME ON TO THE BOY! She is your daughter -- YOUR responsibility. YOU HAVE NO ONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT YOURSELF. Accept the responsibility AS A PARENT Many of us, who haven't judged you, have told you what you should do.

LET IT GO AND MOVE ON!