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[Proserpina]

Hate to tell ya'll but it's been two years long and strong that we were married and i now have a one year old and one on the way.... he has his one year old with the ex and two with me (his wife)....we are doing just fine. He get's his child for visits and we are doing just fine as a family. She is now remarried with her child to her husband so..WE NO LONGER HAVE ANY DRAMA FROM HER. my husband pays his child support when he can but he does pay it.. so think what you want....we are happliy married and GOD had his hand on our marriage.

thanks anyway all...

So in other words he doesn't always pay.

Super guy you have there. Yup.

Is he waiting for God to get out Ye Olde Sacred Wallet and pay the child support for him?

 

[maryjo]

Hate to tell ya'll but it's been two years long and strong that we were married and i now have a one year old and one on the way.... he has his one year old with the ex and two with me (his wife)....we are doing just fine. He get's his child for visits and we are doing just fine as a family. She is now remarried with her child to her husband so..WE NO LONGER HAVE ANY DRAMA FROM HER. my husband pays his child support when he can but he does pay it.. so think what you want....we are happliy married and GOD had his hand on our marriage.

thanks anyway all...

Yeah...thats why you are HERE crying about him adding his child's mother to his Facebook page and communicating with her. Yall are doing JUUUUUUUUST fine!

Edited to say that my marriage died after 9 years of marriage and one kid. Neither one of us had been married before or had children with other people. So dont for a second think that because you popped out his spawn that you have him tied down for life. His other child's mother didnt manage to do that.

 

[Ohiogal]

Hate to tell ya'll but it's been two years long and strong that we were married and i now have a one year old and one on the way.... he has his one year old with the ex and two with me (his wife)....we are doing just fine. He get's his child for visits and we are doing just fine as a family. She is now remarried with her child to her husband so..WE NO LONGER HAVE ANY DRAMA FROM HER. my husband pays his child support when he can but he does pay it.. so think what you want....we are happliy married and GOD had his hand on our marriage.

thanks anyway all...

Why would he leave? You take care of his every need including supporting his butt so he doesn't have to actually work or be responsible. Eventually however he will move on to a younger newer version of you. It is just about guaranteed. And then he will pay child support to you WHEN HE CAN. Which probably means when the new girl pays it.

 

[>Charlotte<]

If stepmom4ever can manipulate the people she knows IRL like she can manipulate people online, she must have one sweet life.

 

[stepmom4ever]

Yeah...thats why you are HERE crying about him adding his child's mother to his Facebook page and communicating with her. Yall are doing JUUUUUUUUST fine!

Edited to say that my marriage died after 9 years of marriage and one kid. Neither one of us had been married before or had children with other people. So dont for a second think that because you popped out his spawn that you have him tied down for life. His other child's mother didnt manage to do that.

Anyway, Im not going to keep going on and on with this... she wasn't able to managed that because he were never serious about her...

 

[Ohiogal]

Anyway, Im not going to keep going on and on with this... she wasn't able to managed that because he were never serious about her...

Isn't that sweet -- your husband is a tool. Nice guy. He uses women and tosses them aside. How great a guy he is. I am sure you are LUCKY to have him.

 

[stepmom4ever]

Why would he leave? You take care of his every need including supporting his butt so he doesn't have to actually work or be responsible. Eventually however he will move on to a younger newer version of you. It is just about guaranteed. And then he will pay child support to you WHEN HE CAN. Which probably means when the new girl pays it.

Okay Ohiogal...me and his ex are older than him...she 4 years older than him and im 8 years older than him...so if he leave me for a younger girl..why did he leave her for an older women (me, who is 8 years older than him).. so, your comments matter not.

 

[JacobJoel]

sshhhhh

SM4E, sometimes it is better to a) keep SOMEthings to oneself and b) SHUT UP!!

like. stop. responding.

this is a hole. you are in it. responding makes the hole DEEPER!!

 

[Ohiogal]

Okay Ohiogal...me and his ex are older than him...she 4 years older than him and im 8 years older than him...so if he leave me for a younger girl..why did he leave her for an older women (me, who is 8 years older than him).. so, your comments matter not.

Oh I get it now. He left her so that his "mommy" could take care of him. Congrats. You fit that role of a mommy to him.

So NOT a catch. But congrats on catching him. Quit mommying HIM and I bet he leaves you for someone else.

 

[maryjo]

Anyway, Im not going to keep going on and on with this... she wasn't able to managed that because he were never serious about her...

Serious enough to have sex with her.

Serious enough to have a child with her.

Serious enough to still be communicating with her by text messages and Facebook and pissing you off in the process.

 

[Proserpina]

Okay Ohiogal...me and his ex are older than him...she 4 years older than him and im 8 years older than him...so if he leave me for a younger girl..why did he leave her for an older women (me, who is 8 years older than him).. so, your comments matter not.

Some people believe an older partner is an easier conquest - older people are more desperate, y'know?

(everyone else: no, I do not have that mindset. Jes' sayin' )

 

[stepmom4ever]

Serious enough to have sex with her.

Serious enough to have a child with her.

Serious enough to still be communicating with her by text messages and Facebook and pissing you off in the process.

They have to communicate, there's a child involved, duh.

 

[>Charlotte<]

SM4E, sometimes it is better to a) keep SOMEthings to oneself and b) SHUT UP!! like. stop. responding. this is a hole. you are in it. responding makes the hole DEEPER!!

Are you serious? Digging herself deeper? Do you really think she starts these threads because she's stupid, and her continued posting somehow makes things worse for herself? She doesn't come here for advice, she comes here for attention. This is a game--her game, and her rules, and she wins every single time.

This thread will be locked and in a month or two she'll get bored and start another game and she'll win that one, too. She may be stupid, but she knows that nobody can resist her. If she really applies some thought to it she could probably turn it into a drinking game with her friends.

 

[Proserpina]

Are you serious? Digging herself deeper? Do you really think she starts these threads because she's stupid, and her continued posting somehow makes things worse for herself? She doesn't come here for advice, she comes here for attention. This is a game--her game, and her rules, and she wins every single time.

This thread will be locked and in a month or two she'll get bored and start another game and she'll win that one, too. She may be stupid, but she knows that nobody can resist her. If she really applies some thought to it she could probably turn it into a drinking game with her friends.

Yup. Like flies around manure....

 

[Proserpina]

so go ahead and lock it, sweetie...I said I was done with all of you anyway...I will ask my husband why he keeps this babymomma as a friend on his facebook page

Righto then honey.