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[mommyof4]

Hate to tell ya'll but it's been two years long and strong that we were married and i now have a one year old and one on the way.... he has his one year old with the ex and two with me (his wife)....we are doing just fine. He get's his child for visits and we are doing just fine as a family. She is now remarried with her child to her husband so..WE NO LONGER HAVE ANY DRAMA FROM HER. my husband pays his child support when he can but he does pay it.. so think what you want....we are happliy married and GOD had his hand on our marriage.

thanks anyway all...

So, yesterday she was engaged, but today she is happily remarried?

You are bringing yet another child into this world whom your husband cannot afford to support?

You are an idiot. There's just nothing else to say to you. Go away.

 

[stepmom4ever]

So, yesterday she was engaged, but today she is happily remarried?

You are bringing yet another child into this world whom your husband cannot afford to support?

You are an idiot. There's just nothing else to say to you. Go away.

engaged, remarried same damn difference...she has someone else is the point...we take care of our child together! and I will go away

 

[maryjo]

They have to communicate, there's a child involved, duh.

And yet earlier in this thread YOU couldnt see that logic....

 

[Country Living]

I've got to go get a beer and a more comfortable chair. This could last for days......

 

[Rushia]

I've got to go get a beer and a more comfortable chair. This could last for days......

I have popcorn. Want some?

 

[Country Living]

I'm thinking about tossing some fajitas on the grill in a little bit. Then we can have dinner and a "movie".

Let me see if I've got this right.

• Hubby has an illegitimate child with old girlfriend.
• Old girlfriend asked him to come to the hospital when she delivered to see new baby.
• Hubby asked OP to join him.
• OP joined him and made a scene at the hospital
• OP is cyberstalking hubby since she knows everything he does on the computer.
• OP claims she's fine with everything except for that Facebook thing.
• OP claims she's safe in her marriage because she also has a child with hubby.
• Somewhere "older woman" became a factor (note: age not intellect or maturity.)
• She thinks we're all stupid.
• We think she's taken a long walk off a short pier.

Did I miss anything?

 

[Just Blue]

I'm thinking about tossing some fajitas on the grill in a little bit. Then we can have dinner and a "movie".

Let me see if I've got this right.

• Hubby has an illegitimate child with old girlfriend.
• Old girlfriend asked him to come to the hospital when she delivered to see new baby.
• Hubby asked OP to join him.
• OP joined him and made a scene at the hospital
• OP is cyberstalking hubby since she knows everything he does on the computer.
• OP claims she's fine with everything except for that Facebook thing.
• OP claims she's safe in her marriage because she also has a child with hubby.
• Somewhere "older woman" became a factor (note: age not intellect or maturity.)
• She thinks we're all stupid.
  [*]We think she's taken a long walk off a short pier.

Did I miss anything?

I might term the last as " Five Sam Adams shy of a six pack"...But other than that...Yeah. You got it.

 

[stepmom4ever]

I'm thinking about tossing some fajitas on the grill in a little bit. Then we can have dinner and a "movie".

Let me see if I've got this right.

• Hubby has an illegitimate child with old girlfriend.
• Old girlfriend asked him to come to the hospital when she delivered to see new baby.
• Hubby asked OP to join him.
• OP joined him and made a scene at the hospital
• OP is cyberstalking hubby since she knows everything he does on the computer.
• OP claims she's fine with everything except for that Facebook thing.
• OP claims she's safe in her marriage because she also has a child with hubby.
• Somewhere "older woman" became a factor (note: age not intellect or maturity.)
• She thinks we're all stupid.
• We think she's taken a long walk off a short pier.

Did I miss anything?

you missed one thing...my husband is the father of that child...he signed a AOP in court so child is legitimized. Everything is matters not because you dont know me...at...all...

 

[CJane]

I'm thinking about tossing some fajitas on the grill in a little bit. Then we can have dinner and a "movie".

Let me see if I've got this right.

• Hubby has an illegitimate child with old girlfriend.
• Old girlfriend asked him to come to the hospital when she delivered to see new baby.
• Hubby asked OP to join him.
• OP joined him and made a scene at the hospital
• OP is cyberstalking hubby since she knows everything he does on the computer.
• OP claims she's fine with everything except for that Facebook thing.
• OP claims she's safe in her marriage because she also has a child with hubby.
• Somewhere "older woman" became a factor (note: age not intellect or maturity.)
• She thinks we're all stupid.
• We think she's taken a long walk off a short pier.

Did I miss anything?

OP's husband is a shining example of manhood who is BILLIONS of dollars in arrears on CS because he pays "when he can", and that's not very often because he's unemployed until he can take the exam to become a "barbar".

Also, OP's husband at one point wanted the court order to FORCE Mom to be the one to physically hand him the child at exchanges - and OP thought THAT made perfect sense.

Obviously OP's husband WANTS contact with his ex - who was pregnant with his child AFTER OP was involved with him (i think even AFTER she was engaged to him).

That might be all.

 

[frylover]

Two years is NOTHING!

I hope his son manages to time it to only need food, diapers, clothing, etc when his daddy (or his daddy's sugar mama) can manage to provide support.

As to asking HIM why he has his ex as a friend on Facebook, what a novel concept....ask the ONLY person who can actually answer that question instead of a bunch of faceless strangers on the internet. I'm sure you can bully him into doing what you want, anyway.

I hope, if your child is a girl, she NEVER hooks up with someone like her daddy....someone who doesn't think you should be serious with someone before having sex with them, who thinks you should just screw someone then toss them aside when you are done playing with them and move on and impregnate the next sucker in line, who thinks it is appropriate to encourage his new fling to interfere with and infringe upon his ex's labor and delivery, who thinks its OK to support his child when it's convenient.

Yep, I'm sure God is just BEAMING down at the two of you!

 

[stepmom4ever]

OP's husband is a shining example of manhood who is BILLIONS of dollars in arrears on CS because he pays "when he can", and that's not very often because he's unemployed until he can take the exam to become a "barbar".

Also, OP's husband at one point wanted the court order to FORCE Mom to be the one to physically hand him the child at exchanges - and OP thought THAT made perfect sense.

Obviously OP's husband WANTS contact with his ex - who was pregnant with his child AFTER OP was involved with him (i think even AFTER she was engaged to him).

That might be all.

wrong they new each other before I met him....she was obviously pregnant before we married....

 

[Just Blue]

you missed one thing...my husband is the father of that child...he signed a aop in court so child is legitimized. Everything is matters not because you dont know me...at...all...

tfg!

******************************************

 

[Country Living]

you missed one thing...my husband is the father of that child...he signed a AOP in court so child is legitimized. Everything is matters not because you dont know me...at...all...

Where I come from, a child born out of wedlock is illegitimate.

 

[mommyof4]

engaged, remarried same damn difference...she has someone else is the point...we take care of our child together! and I will go away

No, it's not...not by a country mile.

See? Idiot.

 

[CJane]

wrong they new each other before I met him....she was obviously pregnant before we married....

Yeah, only I said she was pregnant AFTER you were engaged, not after you were MARRIED.

It's just too bad you were deleting threads back then or I'd find it for you.