Thank you Tommy,
I'll plead PMS, I still haven't gotten over my situation and probably won't for a long time.
I understand your situation is different and from what you say, you made the right decision getting custody. All I was trying to say is make sure the CS you ask for is based on need for the children and not for getting back at the ex. No matter what has happened between the two of you, she is still the mother of your children and what hurts her, hurts the kids.
That is why I never took my ex back to court, he was always throwing CS in my face and even though he was supposed to pay through the state, it was easier for him to pay directly to me. I wanted it mailed to me and he thought it was better to hand my daughter the check to give to me. He did that on purpose to throw CS in my daughters face too. I ask him constantly to stop giving it to her and he continued. I knew if I asked for more he would just make a bigger issue of it and my daughter would be the one to suffer in the long run.
He on the other hand, or I guess I can surley say his wife made sure that they acted with vengeance.
I'll plead PMS, I still haven't gotten over my situation and probably won't for a long time.
I understand your situation is different and from what you say, you made the right decision getting custody. All I was trying to say is make sure the CS you ask for is based on need for the children and not for getting back at the ex. No matter what has happened between the two of you, she is still the mother of your children and what hurts her, hurts the kids.
That is why I never took my ex back to court, he was always throwing CS in my face and even though he was supposed to pay through the state, it was easier for him to pay directly to me. I wanted it mailed to me and he thought it was better to hand my daughter the check to give to me. He did that on purpose to throw CS in my daughters face too. I ask him constantly to stop giving it to her and he continued. I knew if I asked for more he would just make a bigger issue of it and my daughter would be the one to suffer in the long run.
He on the other hand, or I guess I can surley say his wife made sure that they acted with vengeance.