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[BelizeBreeze]

Ok well, if I had more legal knowledge, like you apparently do, I would *nicely and politely* ask additional questions, realizing that the person who asked this vague question doesn't know that more is needed to answer the question properly.
Noting that you have over 7000 posts here, I get the impression that you are so hard and numb to the same thing asked over and over that feel you have to be rude and obnoxious. Maybe it's time you took a looooooong break?

In other words, you don't know yet feel you have the right to judge others who are at least trying to get the right answers.

Nice to know.

 

[my ex is psycho]

In other words, you don't know yet feel you have the right to judge others who are at least trying to get the right answers.

Nice to know.

You still don't get it, do you? Were you never taught a decent, proper way to talk to people? What has happened to make you so cold and spiteful?

 

[LdiJ]

You still don't get it, do you? Were you never taught a decent, proper way to talk to people? What has happened to make you so cold and spiteful?

What has happened is that a large number of the regulars here have answered pretty much the same questions...over and over and over again. After a while, patience pretty much goes out the window. Partially because a simple search of the forums would get many people the correct answer without it having to be repeated...and partially because people get "fed up" with parents who seem to just want to get "one up" on the other parent.

Unfortunately that often means that anybody asking a certain question gets tarred with the same brush as previous posters. Its not right, and its not fair, but its reality. BB actually is a really smart dude and if you answer his questions you get really valid answers...but he has no patience with people that don't answer his questions. And I have to admit that often people just plain WON'T answer the questions. It annoys the heck out of me too.

Nevertheless I do understand newbies and I think they deserve a break. I think they should get at least ONE opportunity to answer the necessary questions before they get slammed.

 

[jslopez711]

Unfortunately that often means that anybody asking a certain question gets tarred with the same brush as previous posters. Its not right, and its not fair, but its reality. BB actually is a really smart dude and if you answer his questions you get really valid answers...but he has no patience with people that don't answer his questions. And I have to admit that often people just plain WON'T answer the questions. It annoys the heck out of me too.

True, I have saved hunundreds of dollars by switching to ....BB's advice. I should get college credit by just reading his post, even though he did go to GW.

 

[my ex is psycho]

What has happened is that a large number of the regulars here have answered pretty much the same questions...over and over and over again. After a while, patience pretty much goes out the window.

Nevertheless I do understand newbies and I think they deserve a break. I think they should get at least ONE opportunity to answer the necessary questions before they get slammed.

I kind of figured that was the reason, and I can understand that it would be very frustrating. That is why it seems he needs to take a break.
And yes, I agree- people should get a chance before getting slammed..lol. maybe even more than one... But not everyone is here to get one up. Some are really here for info and it's difficult to find it, especially when you don't know where to go. If you are frustrated, imagine how we feel.

 

[my ex is psycho]

...but he has no patience with people that don't answer his questions.

Read his response to the original post here... that shows NO patience- period.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

#5 Yesterday, 12:42 PM
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thanks for the sarcasms ill go else where for some real answers and adice

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#4 Yesterday, 12:38 PM
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and I'm guessing you'd like to provide a few 'DETAILS' so that you can receive a relevant answer?

Like:

Is there a support order in place?
Is there a father?
When was the last contact?
What the hell are you talking about?
Who's buried in Grant's tomb?
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#3 Yesterday, 12:32 PM
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well not to be a smart ass or anything but i am in child custody/visitation forum so im guessing a child

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#2 Yesterday, 12:08 PM
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It depends.

Are you talking about a puppy, an easement, or your virginity?
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#1 Yesterday, 12:07 PM
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abandonment

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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? NY

I would like to know how long would it be considered as abandonmnet? weeks, months?

 

[PoetryMom]

im back i just wanted to let everyone know that i wasnt scared off i needed answer like it was yesterday and all i got was sarcasm but i got the answers i needed and took action the legal way for my situation. I was reading all the posts and thanks for those who thought that the answer giving was inapropriate. As for BB I apologize for not having the correct questions that was needed, it was my first time in the forum and really dont know much about family laws. It would be nice if you just be alil nicer to the newcomers who really need help like i did.

Be safe and God Bless