Abandonment

[Pink Lotus]

You got the correct answer. Just because nobody told you that, "Heck YEAH...she abandoned the kids!!!!" doesn't make it wrong.

Abandonment isn't even in the kitchen, much less on the table.

Your life is changing because you put yourself into this situation. If you want to continue a successful relationship with this man and his children, I suggest you read up on what your role is to be and how to conduct yourself.

I promise, it will make your life MUCH easier (not to mention the kids, but hey? Who said they were the most important, right?)

Im not saying she did. Im asking what is abandonment. Im watching them and teaching them too. BTW Where should I read up My role and How to conduct myself? I am conducting myself well in this situation. Trust me. This was a way worse situation.

 

[Bloopy]

Pink Lotus,
Stay out of this.

They are Dad's kids and Mom & Dad should be able to share custody and problems regarding the kids. It's not your business.
Let the parents work out their relationship - don't comment.

If you don't like it, get a guy who doesn't have kids.

Your life is changing because you put yourself into this situation. If you want to continue a successful relationship with this man and his children, I suggest you read up on what your role is to be and how to conduct yourself.

I promise, it will make your life MUCH easier (not to mention the kids, but hey? Who said they were the most important, right?)

Other than “abandonment” being super incorrect terminology, I don’t see where Pink went wrong. She isn’t even on the WeeBus

 

[Bloopy]

Im not saying she did. Im asking what is abandonment. Im watching them and teaching them too. BTW Where should I read up My role and How to conduct myself? I am conducting myself well in this situation. Trust me. This was a way worse situation.

Never mind. I stand corrected. Pink just showed me her ticket for the WeeBus

 

[Pink Lotus]

Look trust me Im happy she left them with US and not other people!! really!

Im not trying to take over or anything. It wonderful to see the girls and their Dad. Thats all I care about. Thats it. But it aint over til its on paper and signed and they are half way there.

 

[stealth2]

Actually Mom came to Me, she calls Me and Asks Me for money. I am involved and Your words cant change that. But my life is changing too and If i wanted to leave I had more reason to do so several months back and I would have if I chose to!

I am just getting answers to questions.

Aaaah, but the law and the court can, sweetpea. According to both, you are.... nothing and no one. Get used to it.

 

[Pink Lotus]

Aaaah, but the law and the court can, sweetpea. According to both, you are.... nothing and no one. Get used to it.

You like telling Step-Parents that huh? Trust me to the kids legally I aint and I aint asking to be at all, but That's not any point im trying to make if thats what you think! Im not saying im their step-mom! Im just asking questions.

 

[Bloopy]

You like telling Step-Parents that huh? Trust me to the kids legally I aint and I aint asking to be at all, but That's not any point im trying to make if thats what you think! Im not saying im their step-mom! Im just asking questions.

Please, please stop. You were fine until you started "defending" yourself.

If you're only here to ask questions for Dad, then stick to that.

Your "defenses" are actually proving everyone's point.

Sum up with. "I know I am a legal stranger. I just want to help Dad by gathering information."

 

[mommyof4]

Im not saying she did. Im asking what is abandonment. Im watching them and teaching them too. BTW Where should I read up My role and How to conduct myself? I am conducting myself well in this situation. Trust me. This was a way worse situation.

Courtesy of Zephyr.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/524167/successful_coparenting_part_3.html

Read up, Sally.

 

[StampGirl]

You like telling Step-Parents that huh? Trust me to the kids legally I aint and I aint asking to be at all, but That's not any point im trying to make if thats what you think! Im not saying im their step-mom! Im just asking questions.

That is the reality of being a step-parent. LEGALLY you are nothing. Get used to it. If it goes to court and you are using the "we" etc etc the judge will toss you out so fast your head will spin and DAD will lose his case because of the overstepping step-mom.