Active Marine. IS 600 a month too much for a 3 year old?

[genivieve]

When people on this forum are especially rude to you, and ask you questions that are inappropriate to the information you are asking for, maybe calling you trailer trash, idiot, unfit, whatever -

A few days after your post, get your ex to register under a different user name than yours (you can figure it out, all you need is a different email address to register), Then have your "ex" ask the same question you asked, but only from his perspective instead of yours.

You will be very suprised I think, when your "ex" receives back messages telling the "ex" how stupid they are, what a terrible parent they are, etc. I've done it several times and it really makes you feel good to know that the advice they are giving you all subjective. I was told that my ex could actually get custody of my child, that I was unfit, etc. Then when my "ex" signed on and asked the same question, he was told he had to abid by the CO order. I won't go into it any further, but according the people who answered the thread he needs to get an attorney as soon as possible and may be in contempt.

Nicely said, nicely done. Love the duality games. These people who post five to six times a day are all morons. But shhhh dont tell them that, they'll just find some way to justify their heathen behavior.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

When people on this forum are especially rude to you, and ask you questions that are inappropriate to the information you are asking for, maybe calling you trailer trash, idiot, unfit, whatever -

A few days after your post, get your ex to register under a different user name than yours (you can figure it out, all you need is a different email address to register), Then have your "ex" ask the same question you asked, but only from his perspective instead of yours.

You will be very suprised I think, when your "ex" receives back messages telling the "ex" how stupid they are, what a terrible parent they are, etc. I've done it several times and it really makes you feel good to know that the advice they are giving you all subjective. I was told that my ex could actually get custody of my child, that I was unfit, etc. Then when my "ex" signed on and asked the same question, he was told he had to abid by the CO order. I won't go into it any further, but according the people who answered the thread he needs to get an attorney as soon as possible and may be in contempt.

Some advice may be subjective, the intent is to be objective. It all depends on the facts provided.
So you are one of the people playing games on this forum, hummm I wonder which one/s you were? What state are you from?

 

[bushbj]

same story here

im in hawaii my child is in pennsylvannia and i pay 598.00 a month for a 5 year old. im a sgt in the marines. everytime i tried to fight it it went up and up and up!!! its bull!!! anyways.... im trying to see what i can do to sign off rights but noone can help me.i am remarried with 3 kids and i just cant do it paying 600 a month. they told me than my new wife diddnt make a change and the kids are hers i would have to adopt them to be able to figure them in that i have to support them.

 

[stealth2]

These people who post five to six times a day are all morons.

And considering you posted 38 posts TODAY, it makes you.... what?

 

[casa]

im in hawaii my child is in pennsylvannia and i pay 598.00 a month for a 5 year old. im a sgt in the marines. everytime i tried to fight it it went up and up and up!!! its bull!!! anyways.... im trying to see what i can do to sign off rights but noone can help me.i am remarried with 3 kids and i just cant do it paying 600 a month. they told me than my new wife diddnt make a change and the kids are hers i would have to adopt them to be able to figure them in that i have to support them.

Your child is the responsibility of you and her mother. Period. You had that responsibility legally first and foremost before you remarried.

Your new wife's children are the responsibility of your new wife and their biological father. If she is not receiving support for them, that is something she needs to pursue their father for.

Even if you did legally adopt them (and that's assuming their father agreed or she had legal cause to terminate his parental rights in order for you to adopt them) all that would do is alleviate their father from future obligations of child support. A court would not just "let you out" of the responsibility of supporting YOUR child just because you decided you no longer wanted to do it. If you had adopted your new wifes children AFTER you already had one of your own to support- that would only demonstrate to the court you felt you could afford to support THREE MORE children. And the only thing that would do...is if you divorced your current wife- the court would make you pay LESS in support to her for her 3 kids (if you adopted them by then) because you have prior support awarded to your own biological child.


You have access to base legal re; this information and no doubt they've told you the same thing.

 

[rbx]

600 a month

$600 a month. I wonder how much of that actually goes to the child/mother.
How can I find out?

 

[casa]

$600 a month. I wonder how much of that actually goes to the child/mother.
How can I find out?

What address is the support sent to? If it's the child/mother's address- then it's going to the child/mother.

 

[bliss_in_texas]

Wow, I only get 250 a month for a 13 year old and 250 for a 15 year old and my ex husband is a TSgt. He has my 17 year old though and I don't pay c/s for him. Does this sound fair to you all? I haven't ever tried to raise the c/s.

 

[rbx]

What address is the support sent to? If it's the child/mother's address- then it's going to the child/mother.

huh?

Oh no. What I meant was.. If there was a court order for $600 per month. How much does the child actually see. Isn't there a percentage the state takes from that $600. State fees, processing and things of that nature.

 

[rbx]

And considering you posted 38 posts TODAY, it makes you.... what?

Ouch that hurt. lol

 

[TNBSMommy]

rbx, I don't know what state you are in, but here in TN, when my ex bothers to pay, I get the entire amount listed in the court order,the state keeps none of it.

 

[casa]

huh?

Oh no. What I meant was.. If there was a court order for $600 per month. How much does the child actually see. Isn't there a percentage the state takes from that $600. State fees, processing and things of that nature.

It depends if the NCP pays the CP directly or if the support goes through a child enforcement/state agency. If the support goes through a state agency they make take a percentage if the CP owes them (ie; in cases of welfare or govt. assistance- or in cases of welfare fraud etc.)

 

[stealth2]

Ouch that hurt. lol

Heh. I figured it was warranted since she was b*tching out people posting only 5-6 times per day.