The police are probably tired of coming out to your place, so of course they would be happy about a settlement. I based my prediction on my interpretation of your posts and attitude. I have a problem with people suing neighbors or making false allegations in an attempt to force them to move.
You are correct in your assumption that the police are tired of coming to our hood.
I have made no false allegations,
I am merely trying to protect myself against them.
My attitude is well earned after two years of trying to reason with unreasonable people.
All criminal and civil actions we took against the neighbors was an effort to convince them
that they need to respect legal boundaries, and that we will not be bullied. To a great extent, it has worked. Many of theirmore outrageous behaviors have stopped as a result the continued pressure we have put on them with every legal means available to us. If you knew the details of the matter, you'd likely be wondering how we have remained non-violent for the past two years.
The concept of suing neighbors to move came from our attorney, who said that after
months of trying to calm hostilites, the only answer was for one party to move away from the other. We can't move, so suing them to move seemed like the best solution.
We are willing to drop the suit and criminal charges if we can find a way to make this stop. As I was writing this, a detective I've known for 20 years just came by to let me know that he was hopeful about the meeting this week, and that there is a good chance of finding resolution.
My only problem is that the neighbors will say anything to get out of the charges and the lawsuit, and if agreed will simply not keep their word to stop. I am sick of "he said, she said", and the next time the neighbor yells fag..t or co..sucker at me when I go down the road with my kids in the car, I'd like to be able to call the cops, show them the proof, and get them to persuade the neighbors to cut the crap once and for all. The neighbor's screaming can be heard well past our yard, and I don't see how he has a right to privacy when he's verbally
assaulting me at the top of his lungs in front of my kids in the middle of the road.
Again, I am looking for legal solutions. I have received two different answers to this question from people on this site, and a variety of people in my community.
If it can be done legally, I want to do it.