My only gripe about the whole thing is that not every case is the same, but the system treats them that way. Look at my situation (the thread is "How do you think a judge will rule on this") I believe I am getting fleeced by a gold digger. Are they all that way, heck no. Should the courts simply follow a formula all the time....definitely not.
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All I Have To Say Is Women Get Wat Too Much And Men Get Screwed!
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AZ - All I know is the NCP, Marty LEsperance, seems to have no intentions on paying CS. Remember this. His name goes on the birth certificate. My daughter is entitled to his SS (death benefit) should he feel the urge to croak over. 
I support our daughter 100% and SHE is entitled to child support, and since she is less than a year old - I am exercising her rights. If anyone knows her NCP let him know that he can run but he cannot hide out forever.
I support our daughter 100% and SHE is entitled to child support, and since she is less than a year old - I am exercising her rights. If anyone knows her NCP let him know that he can run but he cannot hide out forever.bliss_in_texas
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AHA said:
Kinda funny
critterperson
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apparently doesn't like the ex to do well........
It is pretty apparent that this woman is the new girlfriend, and it must chap her butt to see the ex getting a % of what she obviously considers her money
.........I know it would bug the tar out of me if I were living with a NCP, and I was eating mac and cheese while the ex dined out with my significant others check...........I'm glad I will never be on that side of the fence, but God bless those who are willing to give it a go........ 
I do agree with most of the people posting.........no one(99.95%) gets rich on child support.......It does help.......but it is more costly in my opinion to be the CP.
It is pretty apparent that this woman is the new girlfriend, and it must chap her butt to see the ex getting a % of what she obviously considers her money
.........I know it would bug the tar out of me if I were living with a NCP, and I was eating mac and cheese while the ex dined out with my significant others check...........I'm glad I will never be on that side of the fence, but God bless those who are willing to give it a go........ I do agree with most of the people posting.........no one(99.95%) gets rich on child support.......It does help.......but it is more costly in my opinion to be the CP.i am a father who wants his kids but i hammered by the county.i proved in court my ex was spending support money on a babysitter awhile she sat in the bar and i was told we do not care if she buys $650.00 a month in lottery tickets all as we know is we are taking the money out of your pay and giving it to her.when i have my kids i do stuff with them not pawn them off to a babysitter.i would love full custody but i fought myself into bankruptcy fighting for them.lets face it courts are gender basing who is the better parent not the one that really cares.ask my kids how many times does dad take you to the movies,camping,ect they will tell you to many times i am not sure.ask how many times mom does well i remember gram took me to the movies once.mom takes to the sitter alot.the way i look at it she spread her legs to help make the kids she can help support them to right. do not get me wrong i am against dead beat dads.although the courts make some dads dead beat.swanlorri said:
WHWT said:You got that right. i like making the new wifey feel right out of home in her own home.
I've read all yout posts and I must say you are the DUMBEST poster I've encountered.
I bet you $1000 today that your X left your ass for a smarter, pretty, younger, better educated, more sophisticated, woman. And he needs a round of applause for leaving you.....CLAP, CLAP, CLAP, CLAP...HURRAY FOR HIM....HE IS ONE SMART GUY.
I am a newbie wife, make more money than my husband, pay all the bills. Oh, and he left her for me, too. WAS THE BEST THING HE EVER DID!!! All he has to do is pay his child support. His X is just like you, lazy, mean, revengeful, full of hatred. We could careless what she like or doesn't like. Because of her mean spirit (just like yours), she's on welfare, living in government rat-infested housing, riding the bus. She tried to prevent our visitation....
She took my husband took court looking for more money, since we've been married...she too had the false assumption that I was going to pay child support as well. All she got was a tongue-lashing from the judge and her CS was reduced, because the kids were not in daycare and Regarding visitation...we now get more time with the kids (15 days per month). She hates it that they are living with us 1/2 of the time, and spending time with us. She hates it that we take them boating, camping, amusement parks, water skiing...(oh and all on my dime, baby). She even told us to stop, because if she couldn't provide those things, then we didn't have a right to)...Bad her look bad to the children....WHA WHA, WHA!
When you treat people like crap, all you get is crap....and you are full of it, Lady.....
I laugh in your face, hahahahaha...you want your money, hahahahaha....I'm a newbie wife....and I laugh at my husband's X's face...hahahahahaha.
critterperson
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How Sad
How sad that you would laugh at the fact that she lives like this........thoes babies live there too...........and they didn't ask for any of it.......
Anyone who could laugh at the fact that the CP can't afford to do fun things with their children..... don't deserve children of their own..................Talk about mean and spiteful........re-read your post and analyze your own words you may not like the person you are portraying............JMO
jacknjill said:
How sad that you would laugh at the fact that she lives like this........thoes babies live there too...........and they didn't ask for any of it.......
Anyone who could laugh at the fact that the CP can't afford to do fun things with their children..... don't deserve children of their own..................Talk about mean and spiteful........re-read your post and analyze your own words you may not like the person you are portraying............JMO
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jacknjill said:
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Could you be any fuller of yourself????? You and your cheating weak poor "man" deserve each other. Those kids are lucky they didn't spawn from your loins. You are pure evil, which is an embarrassment, not something to proud of! Money doesn't make someone a better parent, a heart does, but then again, you sure don't seem to have one. Money obviously didn't buy you emotions. No wonder you are divorced and your new so called man (more a mouse!) doesn't want to marry you!! Grow the hell up and start acting the old age you are.
critterperson
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jacknjill said:
Good for you........sounds like the new hubby is quite a catch
.....So what bar did you find him in...........let me guess dollar dude night? Or maybe it was looking for any cheap skank night at the local dollar store in your area......... I am normally a nice person on this forum (or I try to be open minded) but your post was way out of line, and I can't help but think that I wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire ..............Hopefully you and your CATCH won't breed.............It sounds as if that family name could die off, and the world would be that much closer to a better place.......... I hope the ex wins the lottery, and has you personally licking her boots....
brisgirl825
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jacknjill....if you were truly good a good step-parent you wouldn't be needing to buy the love of those kids. How you can sit back and know what kind of living situation they're in and not help is beyond me. I hope that your husband wises up to you soon. You need not be around any children.
A for the stereotypes...I am a stay at home mom and I get c/s so I guess I'm a lazy ass mom now huh? I save my ex over $300 a month for the half of the daycare expenses he would have tacked onto his support payments if I were to go to work. So before you bitch about your husband's ex not working, you might think of the money she is saving you.
You should've realized when you got with this man, he had a child to support. If you weren't ready to deal with that, you shouldn't have gotten with him.
Sarah
A for the stereotypes...I am a stay at home mom and I get c/s so I guess I'm a lazy ass mom now huh? I save my ex over $300 a month for the half of the daycare expenses he would have tacked onto his support payments if I were to go to work. So before you bitch about your husband's ex not working, you might think of the money she is saving you.
You should've realized when you got with this man, he had a child to support. If you weren't ready to deal with that, you shouldn't have gotten with him.
Sarah
abstract99
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swanlorri said:thanks I will...I am not really ranting as much as flat out confused over the entire CS issues....they hang the nice ones and let the others hide under rocks and no one does anything to hunt these other men down...like the snakes they really are..that is all..I just think it is time to look at the indivual man instead of grouping them all together....that's all !
This is true! I have not once been able to file paperwork at the courthouse (even for the simplest thing) without my ex filing counter paperwork to have the child support raised (which has so far gone her way every time). Oh how nice that she married a man that lives off of a nice fat trust fund. Good for her that the courts only assigned her minimum wage. It is nice that I am living month to month, all the while paying her a nice chunk of child support a month (and yes I pay on time ALL THE TIME!). I hate how I provide everything for my children in my house and in hers but it is never enough for her. It sucks that men in general are seriotyped as being just needed for child support. I can't even begin to count how many posts I have read here where the mom is asking for advice on how to get the child support and still not let the dad see their children when they cannot give one reason why dad should not be a part of the kids lives.
I'm not saying anything about womens liberation here I just think that there should be stricter guidelines. My ex got assigned minimum wage when I paid for her, out of my own pocket when we were married, to go to school. She has been 2 classes away from a degree for almost 6 years now.
Take my case for example: WE shared 50/50 custody. Then my ex goes off and marries a new man that is in the military. Her hubbie INTENTIONALLY put in for orders out of the area. Despite all of my fighting to retain custody of the children when she moved I lost. I am and have always been a good dad. When we separated Ex told me to just keep the kids. She "didn't want anything to do with them". Now I have to pay more child support for the change of visitation because mom moved. I would think that since it was her decision to move then she should be more prepaired to support the children financially for her extra parenting time. Nope, it is me that has to pay the price out of my own pocket. I am not saying that the children should not be supported here. When Mommiegot sole custody she ran off with my children and won't let me see them anymore. It has almost been a year. I have talked to them on the phone 5x since she has left and both times I had to cut some of the calls short to keep from bursting into tears when my children cry and tell me how much they miss me. Now the children don't even miss me anymore because mommie has told them that the reason why I don't see them is because I don't want to. That bitch.
What does the courts do about this? She goes in there and says "Oh I'M SOOOO SORRY I will never do it again" This was ages ago. Have I seen my kids yet? HELL NO! **** I don't even know where they are half of the time. She hasn't returned my phone call EVER!!! I no longer have any type of relationship with my children and yet here I am paying well over 600, 700, 800 dollars a month because since I never see them I have to pay her for these days too.
Oh and before anybody says anything about how raising a child is not cheap. I know I raise 2, I just never see them. I buy them clothes, christmas gifts, birthday gifts, school supplies, school lunches, and much more. This is not just for my house I do this for moms house to. Why you ask? Because my children being happy is more important to me than my own life. I am willing to live on the bare minimum if it means that the 2 loves of my life are happy.
I'm really sorry, I'm just rambling here. Pay no attention. Just felt like venting. Kinda pissed off right now at my ex and this post just well INSPIRED me to write.
username43 said:
I think what was meant by it is how can mommie afford a nice new rack when she is in so much need for more and more child support.
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abstract99
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That is great that you guys are a stay at home mom (And if you can do it then great do it) but some people like me don't even have the opportinity to have their kids at all. That means that I have no need for a babysitter. Hard to have your ex watch the kids for you when you don't even see your kids.
In Defense of JacknJill
Ok, in defense of JacknJill, If any of you have read how disgusting and horrid WHWT's posts are, you might not knock JacknJill so hard. If JacknJill's ex is as horrid of a person and cares as little about her kids as WHWT does, then good for her for her for caring about her step kids and having fun with them. As long as JacknJill isn't encouraging bad behavior towards the mother of the children.
Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids and furthermore, those of you who actually encourage your children to love and respect the "other" parent, whoever they may be. I personally want my children to be respectful of their witch of a mother (no I would never call her that in front of them), whoever their future step father is (that is if anyone is dumb enough to marry my ex), and also my fiancé. But for those of you like WHWT and like my ex who encourage hatred of the "new bride" "new husband" and/or the father or mother of their children is just plain evil. My daughter called her mother fat the other day, and although I would have loved to die laughing, it would have been absolutely wrong to encourage that kind of behavior. I explained as I always do that her mother loves her (though its questionable) and how it isn't nice to be mean to other people and call them names. It is all of our responsibilities as adults to raise our kids in the best way possible, and if your children do not respect their own parents (mother or father), who will they respect????? People who use their children as weapons and pawns disgust me. Think about it, when you encourage your child to hate someone, especially their own parent, your child is the one who will grow up with ISSUES. You may hurt the other parent or step-parent, but ultimatly you are only hurting the people you supposedly love so much.... YOUR CHILD!!!!
UGH!!!
Ok, in defense of JacknJill, If any of you have read how disgusting and horrid WHWT's posts are, you might not knock JacknJill so hard. If JacknJill's ex is as horrid of a person and cares as little about her kids as WHWT does, then good for her for her for caring about her step kids and having fun with them. As long as JacknJill isn't encouraging bad behavior towards the mother of the children.
Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids and furthermore, those of you who actually encourage your children to love and respect the "other" parent, whoever they may be. I personally want my children to be respectful of their witch of a mother (no I would never call her that in front of them), whoever their future step father is (that is if anyone is dumb enough to marry my ex), and also my fiancé. But for those of you like WHWT and like my ex who encourage hatred of the "new bride" "new husband" and/or the father or mother of their children is just plain evil. My daughter called her mother fat the other day, and although I would have loved to die laughing, it would have been absolutely wrong to encourage that kind of behavior. I explained as I always do that her mother loves her (though its questionable) and how it isn't nice to be mean to other people and call them names. It is all of our responsibilities as adults to raise our kids in the best way possible, and if your children do not respect their own parents (mother or father), who will they respect????? People who use their children as weapons and pawns disgust me. Think about it, when you encourage your child to hate someone, especially their own parent, your child is the one who will grow up with ISSUES. You may hurt the other parent or step-parent, but ultimatly you are only hurting the people you supposedly love so much.... YOUR CHILD!!!!
UGH!!!
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