All I Have To Say Is Women Get Wat Too Much And Men Get Screwed!

[critterperson]

Ok, in defense of JacknJill, If any of you have read how disgusting and horrid WHWT's posts are, you might not knock JacknJill so hard. If JacknJill's ex is as horrid of a person and cares as little about her kids as WHWT does, then good for her for her for caring about her step kids and having fun with them. As long as JacknJill isn't encouraging bad behavior towards the mother of the children.

Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids and furthermore, those of you who actually encourage your children to love and respect the "other" parent, whoever they may be. I personally want my children to be respectful of their witch of a mother (no I would never call her that in front of them), whoever their future step father is (that is if anyone is dumb enough to marry my ex), and also my fiancé. But for those of you like WHWT and like my ex who encourage hatred of the "new bride" "new husband" and/or the father or mother of their children is just plain evil. My daughter called her mother fat the other day, and although I would have loved to die laughing, it would have been absolutely wrong to encourage that kind of behavior. I explained as I always do that her mother loves her (though its questionable) and how it isn't nice to be mean to other people and call them names. It is all of our responsibilities as adults to raise our kids in the best way possible, and if your children do not respect their own parents (mother or father), who will they respect????? People who use their children as weapons and pawns disgust me. Think about it, when you encourage your child to hate someone, especially their own parent, your child is the one who will grow up with ISSUES. You may hurt the other parent or step-parent, but ultimatly you are only hurting the people you supposedly love so much.... YOUR CHILD!!!!

UGH!!!

I think you may have missed the boat ..........We were disgusted with this new wife laughing about the ex not being financially able to do nice things for the children..........We do not condone people bashing the new wife (at least I don't) just because she is the new wife.......... I just think it is sick that this woman would brag about the financial distress that her new husbands ex wife is in........because that means the children live in financial distress too.... I hope I cleared this up for you

 

[AHA]

Ok, in defense of JacknJill, If any of you have read how disgusting and horrid WHWT's posts are, you might not knock JacknJill so hard. If JacknJill's ex is as horrid of a person and cares as little about her kids as WHWT does, then good for her for her for caring about her step kids and having fun with them. As long as JacknJill isn't encouraging bad behavior towards the mother of the children.

Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids and furthermore, those of you who actually encourage your children to love and respect the "other" parent, whoever they may be. I personally want my children to be respectful of their witch of a mother (no I would never call her that in front of them), whoever their future step father is (that is if anyone is dumb enough to marry my ex), and also my fiancé. But for those of you like WHWT and like my ex who encourage hatred of the "new bride" "new husband" and/or the father or mother of their children is just plain evil. My daughter called her mother fat the other day, and although I would have loved to die laughing, it would have been absolutely wrong to encourage that kind of behavior. I explained as I always do that her mother loves her (though its questionable) and how it isn't nice to be mean to other people and call them names. It is all of our responsibilities as adults to raise our kids in the best way possible, and if your children do not respect their own parents (mother or father), who will they respect????? People who use their children as weapons and pawns disgust me. Think about it, when you encourage your child to hate someone, especially their own parent, your child is the one who will grow up with ISSUES. You may hurt the other parent or step-parent, but ultimatly you are only hurting the people you supposedly love so much.... YOUR CHILD!!!!

UGH!!!

Yeah, JacknJill is a fine role model by buying her stepkids's love by giving them things and vacations and then laughing when the kids go home to their poorer mother's rat infested house!! That's just the kind of steparent kids in the world need to grow up with. Nothing better than instilling materialistic demands in a child's mind and that their mother is a bad mom just because she can't buy them loads of toys and trips. That's the american way of raising kids, huh? Tragic

 

[J&A]

I think you may have missed the boat ..........We were disgusted with this new wife laughing about the ex not being financially able to do nice things for the children..........We do not condone people bashing the new wife (at least I don't) just because she is the new wife.......... I just think it is sick that this woman would brag about the financial distress that her new husbands ex wife is in........because that means the children live in financial distress too.... I hope I cleared this up for you

I know ..... but it might have just been a bitter reactiont to WHWT's disgusting quotes on the thread she started..... WHWT gives all of the good mothers out there a bad name, just like all the dead beat dads give the rest of us a bad name. Read WHWT thread that she started.... it got my blood boiling, that is for sure .... lol!!! I feel better now.

 

[J&A]

Yeah, JacknJill is a fine role model by buying her stepkids's love by giving them things and vacations and then laughing when the kids go home to their poorer mother's rat infested house!! That's just the kind of steparent kids in the world need to grow up with. Nothing better than instilling materialistic demands in a child's mind and that their mother is a bad mom just because she can't buy them loads of toys and trips. That's the american way of raising kids, huh? Tragic

Though I understand this, I am glad someone told that disgusting excuse for a mother (WHWT) off. I said IF her husband's ex is as EVIL, HATEFUL, AND MANIPULATIVE, as WHWT, then she deserves it. Thats all. I don't condone evil step parents or evil parents.

 

[AHA]

I know ..... but it might have just been a bitter reactiont to WHWT's disgusting quotes on the thread she started..... WHWT gives all of the good mothers out there a bad name, just like all the dead beat dads give the rest of us a bad name. Read WHWT thread that she started.... it got my blood boiling, that is for sure .... lol!!! I feel better now.

I don't think highly of WHWT either, so agree with you on that one, but JacknEvil's attitude towards the well being of her stepkids is just lethal and as a mom/stepmom you owe it to the kids to have a heart for a heart, not a cold stone.

 

[critterperson]

I know ..... but it might have just been a bitter reactiont to WHWT's disgusting quotes on the thread she started..... WHWT gives all of the good mothers out there a bad name, just like all the dead beat dads give the rest of us a bad name. Read WHWT thread that she started.... it got my blood boiling, that is for sure .... lol!!! I feel better now.

I am glad you are feeling better............

 

[stealth2]

Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids

Uuuuuh, so you think this:

Oh, and he left her for me, too. WAS THE BEST THING HE EVER DID!!!

is setting a good example in raising morally responsible kids? That adultery thing? That's a wee bit off, doncha think?

 

[J&A]

AHA - I don't think highly of WHWT either, so agree with you on that one, but JacknEvil's attitude towards the well being of her stepkids is just lethal and as a mom/stepmom you owe it to the kids to have a heart for a heart, not a cold stone.

You are right, lets hope she doesn't encourage her step children to think poorly of their mother for something as petty as money. That is very true. Ok, so my foot is half way inserted in mouth....

 

[J&A]

ok ok ok

STEALTH2 -Quote:
Originally Posted by J&A
Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids


Uuuuuh, so you think this:

Quote:
Originally Posted by jacknjill
Oh, and he left her for me, too. WAS THE BEST THING HE EVER DID!!!


is setting a good example in raising morally responsible kids? That adultery thing? That's a wee bit off, doncha think?

FOOT ALL THE WAY IN MOUTH!!!!

 

[stealth2]

FOOT ALL THE WAY IN MOUTH!!!!

S'okay - it was sort of buried in her post.

 

[jacknjill]

Ok, in defense of JacknJill, If any of you have read how disgusting and horrid WHWT's posts are, you might not knock JacknJill so hard. If JacknJill's ex is as horrid of a person and cares as little about her kids as WHWT does, then good for her for her for caring about her step kids and having fun with them. As long as JacknJill isn't encouraging bad behavior towards the mother of the children.

Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids and furthermore, those of you who actually encourage your children to love and respect the "other" parent, whoever they may be. I personally want my children to be respectful of their witch of a mother (no I would never call her that in front of them), whoever their future step father is (that is if anyone is dumb enough to marry my ex), and also my fiancé. But for those of you like WHWT and like my ex who encourage hatred of the "new bride" "new husband" and/or the father or mother of their children is just plain evil. My daughter called her mother fat the other day, and although I would have loved to die laughing, it would have been absolutely wrong to encourage that kind of behavior. I explained as I always do that her mother loves her (though its questionable) and how it isn't nice to be mean to other people and call them names. It is all of our responsibilities as adults to raise our kids in the best way possible, and if your children do not respect their own parents (mother or father), who will they respect????? People who use their children as weapons and pawns disgust me. Think about it, when you encourage your child to hate someone, especially their own parent, your child is the one who will grow up with ISSUES. You may hurt the other parent or step-parent, but ultimatly you are only hurting the people you supposedly love so much.... YOUR CHILD!!!!

UGH!!!

Thank you very much for saying this.....My point was not to throw myself in this woman's face. I was driving home a point tha WHWT needs to move on. My stepkids are great. I would and never have said anything bad about their mother (she shows them everyday through her actions, what type of mother she is). She doesn't need me to help her in that department. I have my own children that are grown, that I raised alone. My husband's X has had every opportunity to work, educate herself, and life within her means. But she chooses to continue to breed children with unknown fathers, live off of welfare, buy new cars and yes get a face lift, all on child support. So all you people who think that I'm the worst piece of crap you've encountered, think again. I didn't steal this man from a happy man. We met at work 9 years before anything happened between us. He married his X because she lied to him about b-control and got pregnant. He tried to do the right thing for 10 years, and all he got was heart-ache, bruises, low self-esteem and constantly trying to keep the family together even though he knew that she cheated on him several times. My husband and I make the same $$, I own my own home, the children have a stable environment to live in, little league games, boy scouts, vacations. If he would have stayed in the marriage, my husband would never have the type of relationship with his kids that he does now. That is because "thanks to me" I helped him see the light. I told him that he didn't need to settle in that relationship and that he can better himself and still be a wonderful father to his kids. They only see their mother, because of the court orders. We never discourage them from their visits and when they try to "schedule stuff on her weekends" we tell them no, their obligation is to visit their mother. So get off your high horses, all I did is rescue a man and his children from someone who had no idea what she had I the first place, neglects her kids emotionally and financially.

When the X took us back to court for more money, my husband tried to keep it out of the courts and offered her $300 more per month...She said no, took us to court and the CS was reduced by $250. So don't criticize me. I love my husband and stepkids, they love me..... Their mother daily tells them I'm a b!itch, whore, etc....I don't love them....I stole them from her......Maybe if she acted like a wife/mother, and not like a slut herself, she'd still have her family.

You all need to read WHWT's posts and you too would applaud me....

 

[jacknjill]

I think you may have missed the boat ..........We were disgusted with this new wife laughing about the ex not being financially able to do nice things for the children..........We do not condone people bashing the new wife (at least I don't) just because she is the new wife.......... I just think it is sick that this woman would brag about the financial distress that her new husbands ex wife is in........because that means the children live in financial distress too.... I hope I cleared this up for you

She put herself in this financial distress. Before the divorce she worked, made $50,000 per year. etc, etc, When he left she fell apart. Tried to run him over with her car in a parking lot with her kids in the car....She called constantly telling him that she was taking him to the cleaners. She quit her job, thinking that she would get more CS from him if she had no income. She went on welfare. She was "going to make him pay for leaving her" The judge told her to get a job and only allowed the CS based on imputation of her income. SHE CHOOSES TO BE UNEMPLOYED, AND FINANCIALLY STRAPPED. It's not my fault no my husbands. With the downturn in the economy, she can't find a $50,000 job now. Is that our fault, she was vindictive and wanted to "make him pay"??So before you criticize me....read the facts.

In five years she has taken us to court 5 times for more money and each time the judge tells her to go away and get a job....

 

[stealth2]

You all need to read WHWT's posts and you too would applaud me....

I have, and I don't.

 

[jacknjill]

Yeah, JacknJill is a fine role model by buying her stepkids's love by giving them things and vacations and then laughing when the kids go home to their poorer mother's rat infested house!! That's just the kind of steparent kids in the world need to grow up with. Nothing better than instilling materialistic demands in a child's mind and that their mother is a bad mom just because she can't buy them loads of toys and trips. That's the american way of raising kids, huh? Tragic

Yes it is tragic. Without my financial support, love, unconditional acceptance of them...they would have NOTHING. I don't have to spend any $$ on these kids, take them on vacations, water-skiing, etc....I don't have to diddly squat for any of them...BUT I DO.....because these kids atleast deserve someone that loves them, doesn't spend their money on facelifts, new cars, perms, and other luxuries they can't afford. If I can take them away for just a little while from the living sitatuion at their mothers, and make them smile, then I'm a rotten person. (FYI, their mother as breed 2x more since the divorce and have had 5 livin boyfriends that are no history). I'm the meanest stepmother out there. It is so sad that people think that it's so bad for a stepmother to share her financial wealth on kids that aren't even her responsibility. Maybe it would be best for my husband to have never married me or anyone. Maybe it's better that he live in a studio or one bedroom apartment, living paycheck to paycheck just to pay the CS that the kids never see anyway. That is a much better life for them, isn't it. I should throw them all out of my house and everyone would be happy. You guys are NUTS.....

 

[BelizeBreeze]

this thread will be closed. It's ENOUGH!