critterperson
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Ok, in defense of JacknJill, If any of you have read how disgusting and horrid WHWT's posts are, you might not knock JacknJill so hard. If JacknJill's ex is as horrid of a person and cares as little about her kids as WHWT does, then good for her for her for caring about her step kids and having fun with them. As long as JacknJill isn't encouraging bad behavior towards the mother of the children.
Bottom line is, I applaud anyone who is in favor of bringing up morally responsible, KIND kids and furthermore, those of you who actually encourage your children to love and respect the "other" parent, whoever they may be. I personally want my children to be respectful of their witch of a mother (no I would never call her that in front of them), whoever their future step father is (that is if anyone is dumb enough to marry my ex), and also my fiancé. But for those of you like WHWT and like my ex who encourage hatred of the "new bride" "new husband" and/or the father or mother of their children is just plain evil. My daughter called her mother fat the other day, and although I would have loved to die laughing, it would have been absolutely wrong to encourage that kind of behavior. I explained as I always do that her mother loves her (though its questionable) and how it isn't nice to be mean to other people and call them names. It is all of our responsibilities as adults to raise our kids in the best way possible, and if your children do not respect their own parents (mother or father), who will they respect????? People who use their children as weapons and pawns disgust me. Think about it, when you encourage your child to hate someone, especially their own parent, your child is the one who will grow up with ISSUES. You may hurt the other parent or step-parent, but ultimatly you are only hurting the people you supposedly love so much.... YOUR CHILD!!!!
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I think you may have missed the boat

