any help invited!

[sickaboutit]

What is the name of your state?Oklahoma

Can my husband request paternity tests on his two children ages 6 and 8? We were told by an attorney that if he did it would not make a difference because he had been paying for them for so long, and because earlier he had gone and signed statements that the children were his when they were first born. He is having second thoughts because of some rumors that have been surfacing. I told him he should just so he would be certain and have no doubt, but he's afraid that if he finds out that they aren't then because the lawyer told him that there is nothing he can do then he would be looking STUPID taking care of another mans child! HELP......

 

[seniorjudge]

"Can my husband request paternity tests on his two children ages 6 and 8?"

Yes.

 

[stealth2]

But after this amount of time, he may not have any recourse. He has held himself out as the childrens' father.

 

[watchin tv]

doubts

he can get a paternity test, but most likely after this amount of time and after signing the birth certificate, then theres nothing he can do about it.

are there any doubts that the could not be his children? because you didn't quite clarify that.

 

[sickaboutit]

Paternity

I was not aware that he had doubt until we married. He said the doubt has been there since his son was born. He informed me that he and another guy was at the house when she came home with the baby, but when the other guy saw him there he left and was never heard from again. I told him I think he should do it just to be sure. If he wants to still father them...fine but know the truth!

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

(QUOTE)He informed me that he and another guy was at the house when she came home with the baby, but when the other guy saw him there he left and was never heard from again.(QUOTE)

I'm having a Blond Moment, or you need to get real.

https://forum.freeadvice.com/search.php?do=finduser&u=183332

 

[sickaboutit]

Paradise you a MESS!

I am for REAL.....he said he and the guy nearly got into a fight. Then a few days later one of her friends told him that the baby was not his. He just kept sticking around being a fool. Now as the child gets older he regrets ever doing that and keep asking me what eh should do. I told him to go for it. What do you think? STOP HAVING A BLONDE MOMENT.................and answer the question!

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/search.php?do=finduser&u=183332

In case your *REAL SELF* did not notice, you can click on the link.

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=211582

 

[sickaboutit]

Click on the link for what.....I clicked on the link twice.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Click on the link for what.....I clicked on the link twice.

Your not clicking correctly. Are you avoiding that post?, or do you have key board problems?

OUT!

 

[LdiJ]

What is the name of your state?Oklahoma

Can my husband request paternity tests on his two children ages 6 and 8? We were told by an attorney that if he did it would not make a difference because he had been paying for them for so long, and because earlier he had gone and signed statements that the children were his when they were first born. He is having second thoughts because of some rumors that have been surfacing. I told him he should just so he would be certain and have no doubt, but he's afraid that if he finds out that they aren't then because the lawyer told him that there is nothing he can do then he would be looking STUPID taking care of another mans child! HELP......

Looking at this thread and your previous thread its clear that you seriously resent the CS going out of your household income. It would be in the best interest of everyone concerned, and particularly the children, if you just learn to accept things the way that they are.

 

[stealth2]

I'm really curious what the purpose of knowing this information would be. He has parented these two children for 6 and 8 years. Suppose he finds out he's not their biological father - will that make him any less of their Daddy? Will you resent his paying support even more than you apparently already do? Sometimes, it is better to leave well enough alone.