THis is not about your views of how well off she is...the point is you were ordered to pay her XX out of your pension account and somehow you got distribution of the entire account made to you.
AS a practical matter it may make no sense to issue a QDRO to the administrator of a now empty pot ...but the intent of the order is clear...you owe her let's say $40,000 and some judge might not be amused at your games.....as an extreme example some bright guy in the Philadelphia area made his divorce payment money disappear...the judge said go get it, the guy said I cannot find it, the judge threw him in jail for DECADES on contempt ...and for technical reasons it is hard to set aside or appeal a nonfinal order , it was decades before he got out.
I suppose you could recreate a retirement account to replecitate her share ...but I suspect that's one heck of a lot of legal and tax work, if the law even allows for same .
Why not just pay her in full ? Get over your sour grapes.
Funny ! I'm broke and need to survive life after 50 and thereabouts. Sure cut a check from the only money I have. don't you think most people that visit here are already wound-up with their legal problems and from time to time spurt out blah blah, human nature don't you know ?
not amused by your logic, for one you do not have all the facts and therefore only opinionate ,thank god. secondly, there are always two entities involved in a dispute, thirdly she is as culpable as I for not upholding her side of the contract. And lastly no more lawyers that prey on this feeding frenzy with divorcee's. very lucrative business, helping people fight each other in a court setting with a liquored up judge who probably has more problems than everybody else in the room. Finding an edge is why I came here, evidently nothing new under the sun.
But I will give credit where it is due. Right about one thing, its all about the document and what it says. step 1, then 2 and so on and so forth until the document is satisfied, whoever misses a step is vulnerable.
Now I understand why people go off the grid.
