theyoungest20
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Wisconsin
I was rescently served with papers from an ex of mine. We were never married. He is taking me to court trying to get joint custody, child support lowered and something done about who is suppose to cover insurance costs. We have one child together... a daughter who is approx. 2 1/2 yrs old. J(my ex) has seen her a total of 3 hours in her life! Three visits of approx. an hour each time and every time I went out of my way to bring her to him. All three of these visits were in the first 6 months of her life. He hasn't seen her since June 14th, 2003 and today if January 17th 2005. He has only called one time since the last visit and that was about a statement he got from his insurance company. He told me he was woried that he would have to pay the amount his insurance didn't cover. Durring this phone call he never asked about our daughter. Right when he was getting ready to hang up I told him that he was free to come and see her any time that he wanted as long as he called and arranged a time first. He said that he would call with in the next 5 days... and guess what he never called. That phone call was around May of 2004. Here we are in January of 2005 and he has not once tried to contact me in regards to our daughter. The part that makes this even sadder... He lives in the same metropolitian area, only about 15 min from us.
So finally after that huge sphiel... Can he actually get joint custody of our daughter?
I am engaged to be married in June of this year and my fiance', who has been raiseing G(the child in this case) since she was 6 months old, wants to adopt her as soon as we are married.
Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated... Thanks
I was rescently served with papers from an ex of mine. We were never married. He is taking me to court trying to get joint custody, child support lowered and something done about who is suppose to cover insurance costs. We have one child together... a daughter who is approx. 2 1/2 yrs old. J(my ex) has seen her a total of 3 hours in her life! Three visits of approx. an hour each time and every time I went out of my way to bring her to him. All three of these visits were in the first 6 months of her life. He hasn't seen her since June 14th, 2003 and today if January 17th 2005. He has only called one time since the last visit and that was about a statement he got from his insurance company. He told me he was woried that he would have to pay the amount his insurance didn't cover. Durring this phone call he never asked about our daughter. Right when he was getting ready to hang up I told him that he was free to come and see her any time that he wanted as long as he called and arranged a time first. He said that he would call with in the next 5 days... and guess what he never called. That phone call was around May of 2004. Here we are in January of 2005 and he has not once tried to contact me in regards to our daughter. The part that makes this even sadder... He lives in the same metropolitian area, only about 15 min from us.
So finally after that huge sphiel... Can he actually get joint custody of our daughter?
I am engaged to be married in June of this year and my fiance', who has been raiseing G(the child in this case) since she was 6 months old, wants to adopt her as soon as we are married.
Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated... Thanks