Challengs Of Post Secondary Education Law

[gml659]

Snodderly,

His response, of course, was "NO". Heck, I can't even get him to come over and talk politely to me. I left several v-mail messages on his c-phone asking him to come over and talk in a calm and relaxed atmosphere.

His mother started to "work" on him again. Even my 15yo called accusing me of taking Mom to court about the PSES....SHE was the Petitioner. At least my 15yo said he wasn't a "Sheep".

Then when my 18yo found out I was taking his Mom to Court on Contempt...he fliped out. Of course, (and, I guess as it should be) he sees is Mom as perfect. He doesn't see that she has used PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) on him. In all honesty he probably shouldn't. I remember when I was that age and someone alienated me from another family member.

GML

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Just a reminder, your son is right, you are taking your ex to court over PSES. While she may have petitioned for it originally, you are taking her to court by applealing it and looks especially bad after agreeing to it. You really have to step back and look at what you are doing and why your son's react as they do. You are closer to that now than you were in the beginning but you still have a ways to go to do what is in the best interest of your children.

Your contempt charges may or may not prove successful.

 

[LdiJ]

Rmet,

Yes Sir. I see your point. This was a VERY difficult decision for me. VERY. In my Declaration I asked the Court for several conditions. The Commisioner ignored these....maybe he had no choice.

One thing I asked for was that my Son and I go to Counseling to help mend our differences. The Son could pick the Counselor and I would pay 100% for the Costs. This was ignored.

I will, 100%, honor the Courts decision. It isn't the Governments fault I married her when I was 20yo. I am to blame....I should have known better.

GML

If your son is already 18, the court COULD not order the two of you into counseling. The court doesn't have the authority to do that.