child custody and step dad wanting to adopt

[KarenCherie]

that's my understanding - but i haven't researched this well - i plan on doing this tonite, when i can tie up the computer for awhile. LOL

 

[Bre's_mom]

Bre's Mom - okay, i acknowledge my stupidity. My only explanation is this: just before i got pregnant with my daughter, i had just lost twin sons, a still birth. I mistakenly thought another baby would help the marriage - i think that is a common link to insanity - and after losing my boys (same dad as my daughter) i really wanted to fill the emptiness that was there. So, it was not logical, or rational. But she has healed my heart and made my life so much the better. I have a reason for living and fighting again. And I am determined that she will be stronger than I am - always.

I'm so sorry for your loss, I have had 2 miscarrages, and I know that is different from a still birth, but I do know that when I got pregnant with my daughter, and was able to carry her to my 8th month, it was a miracle. (she was early, rough pregancy) And once I had her it did help me deal with the 1st miscarrage. Then 3 1/2 years later I got pregnant again, and I miscarried again. I want so badly to get pregnant again, but at the same time, I'm terrified that I will miscarry again. Sorry for rambling, I feel for your loss.
P.S. my best friend had a still birth, she was 8 months along.
I hope you are doing ok with what happen...