What is the name of your state?North Carolina My current wifes' ex husband is seeking to reduce his child support payment by approximately 40%. His reasoning behind this is he has a new wife and child with her. He rarely spends time with his children he is paying support for now and in the past missed paying support for about 20 months. We provide the health insurance and pay all the medical bills, although he is supposed to pay half (our choice) The hearing is this Wednesday. Does anyone have any advise I can pass on to her? Thanks