Momto1yrold
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question about taxes....
What is the name of your state? NY
Short recap...Went to court date. He testified I presented the medical bills he ignored to respond to me or send payment for. He had his Court Appointed lawyer etc.
He admitted to not paying, and knowing his responsibility, admitted to making $400 in cash off the books. But will file a 1099 at end of yr. Hes in construction so i dont believe the $400 etc.
He lied multiple times, stated he paid certain amounts during certain periods. FOF stated hes not credible and he had no proof to back up what he was saying. She awarded me 2 money judgements and suggested he be held in county jail for 75 days.
Ex filed objections for the contempt, nothing formal just whining and crying and asking if i would work something out (he wrote me in email wants me to lower support to less than half and meet him half way for visits-thats not going to happen).
Went in front of Higher judge. His CA lawyer didnt show up. One of court clerks in room said she remembers she had a dif schedule etc. Come to find out she didnt get notice of this date. So reschedule for a month later. Now a week before we went back we heard back on the objections from this same higher judge. He wrote no the decision stands and FOF and Deposition is just Objection denied etc.
We go back to the judge hes looking at papers for several minutes (now we had cross petitions and objections all over the place so its very confusing). He says i like to have certian info in fof and etc like what amount he was supposed to pay, what percent he paid, what amount he didnt pay, what time frame he didnt pay for etc. He just looked at these papers a week before and said they were fine!?!
So he sends us back to magistrate to "fix" it-we go back next week. Now how do they do this, do they go by date I filed, date he stopped paying? He made some sporadic $10-$30 back in beginning of yr and then several months went with none. In Sept (after receiving the jail recommendation), He started making payments almost half of what he is supposed to.
Will they look at time after the magistrate made her decision cause he is still not making full payments. Hes almost $8000 in arrears almost double what he owed when i filed petition.
Thanks for any advice or info at all.
What is the name of your state? NY
Short recap...Went to court date. He testified I presented the medical bills he ignored to respond to me or send payment for. He had his Court Appointed lawyer etc.
He admitted to not paying, and knowing his responsibility, admitted to making $400 in cash off the books. But will file a 1099 at end of yr. Hes in construction so i dont believe the $400 etc.
He lied multiple times, stated he paid certain amounts during certain periods. FOF stated hes not credible and he had no proof to back up what he was saying. She awarded me 2 money judgements and suggested he be held in county jail for 75 days.
Ex filed objections for the contempt, nothing formal just whining and crying and asking if i would work something out (he wrote me in email wants me to lower support to less than half and meet him half way for visits-thats not going to happen).
Went in front of Higher judge. His CA lawyer didnt show up. One of court clerks in room said she remembers she had a dif schedule etc. Come to find out she didnt get notice of this date. So reschedule for a month later. Now a week before we went back we heard back on the objections from this same higher judge. He wrote no the decision stands and FOF and Deposition is just Objection denied etc.
We go back to the judge hes looking at papers for several minutes (now we had cross petitions and objections all over the place so its very confusing). He says i like to have certian info in fof and etc like what amount he was supposed to pay, what percent he paid, what amount he didnt pay, what time frame he didnt pay for etc. He just looked at these papers a week before and said they were fine!?!
So he sends us back to magistrate to "fix" it-we go back next week. Now how do they do this, do they go by date I filed, date he stopped paying? He made some sporadic $10-$30 back in beginning of yr and then several months went with none. In Sept (after receiving the jail recommendation), He started making payments almost half of what he is supposed to.
Will they look at time after the magistrate made her decision cause he is still not making full payments. Hes almost $8000 in arrears almost double what he owed when i filed petition.
Thanks for any advice or info at all.
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