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BL

Senior Member
Do you still have the new husband's voice mail. This would be helpful.

Helpful for what ?

Read what I posted about contempt and the finding thereof .

Based on the postings:

There is NO written requirement for the poster to give X EOW during summer visits .

There is NO written requirement that prohibits the poster from taking the child(ren) out of State for visits .

The poster has NOT violated any orders .

The poster CAN NOT be held in contempt .
 


wileybunch

Senior Member
Helpful for what ? .... The poster has NOT violated any orders . The poster CAN NOT be held in contempt .
The judge should know that not only is Mom incorrect in her understanding of contempt, but that she purposely brought this motion under false pretenses.
 

osmosis

Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida

In the most recent SUPPLEMENTAL FINAL JUDGMENT MODIFYING FATHERS PARENTING TIME it states that I am entitled to every other weekend with our children with a rotating holiday schedule. This year I got the second half of the summer.

Due to a severe illness in the family (my FIL suffered renal failure and the doctors didn't think he'd make it) my wife & I took the children to visit their step-grandfather for the summer. I allowed the X to know the situation and allowed her to know that I would be returning the children at the end of my portion of the summer at the previously agreed upon date, place and time. Her husband called back and said that they understood, sent their best wishes for my FIL's recovery and would see us at the time I specified.

The following day child protective services contacted me and informed me that X was concerned for the well being of the children and was afraid that I would not return the children at all. I was instructed to take the kids to the local sheriff's station for a visual inspection. I complied, the sheriff's office contacted the CPS worker to let them know the results of the inspection, and we were sent on our way.

2 days later X filed a motion for contempt stating, in part:

"...the court required the other party to: advise of change of address as required by law & to allow alternate weekend visits while our children are in his care during the summer months as verbally stated by [the judge]."

She went on to say (spelling and grammatical errors included):
"On July 23, 2008 at approximately 2:30 pm Sabrina from Dept. of Children and Families notified me at work requesting a working contact number and current address for [the former husband]. She advised that [my current home] was vacant. [the former husband] fled the state of Florida with our children without prior permission from me or the courts. I have no forwarding address or any idea as to the physical whereabouts of my children.

He left a message stating my weekends weren't on paper so he wasn't bringing our children for my visitation. Despite his insistance on his weekends during my half of the summer with them"

She then requested I be responsible for the fees connected with the motion, that I be incarcerated if found in contempt, and a writ of bodily attachment be issued if I do not appear at the hearing.

Prior to this event, I advised the courts of my whereabouts, including the address of the location we were staying in. It does not state in any of our paper work that I have to ask anyone's permission to take the kids out of state during my court ordered visitation, nor does it provide for her to have visitation during that time. I am typically amenable to giving her visitation, but due to being out of state it is just not feasible.

I attended the hearing on November 7th for this matter. In the first few minutes of the hearing, she withdrew her complaint regarding 100 feet https://forum.freeadvice.com/domestic-violence-abuse-38/within-100-feet-423198.html stating that she was incorrect.

The judge asked for my side of the story, and when he questioned her for her inconsistencies, she had nothing to say. He ruled that I was not in contempt and had done nothing to violate a court order. He did, however, change our visitation arrangement to say that she is entitled to 2 days with the children every two weeks during my parenting time.

So when I asked:
Does she have a case or has she just wasted $50 for a big fat slap upside the head?
She did. A big fat slap upside the head.

Just wanted to update :)
 

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