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Court Decision....UNREAL....Need Advice!....
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newlywed03
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"He is experiencing what can only be described as something similiar to the death of his two children."
He's accepting defeat before he's even tried to see his kids for the visitation.
Yes you are in shock - She was wrong to take off with the kids - but are you all that surprised? December 26th isn't that far off - start the phone calls to her, get those certified letters (with return receipt)ready - send them to both Florida & NJ, send them to both the ex and the in-laws. Make your airline reservations, hotel accomodations, etc. Start looking for an attorney in NJ set up so if she trys to jack him on seeing the kids you are prepared. Be pro-active.
"He is experiencing what can only be described as something similiar to the death of his two children."
He's accepting defeat before he's even tried to see his kids for the visitation.
Yes you are in shock - She was wrong to take off with the kids - but are you all that surprised? December 26th isn't that far off - start the phone calls to her, get those certified letters (with return receipt)ready - send them to both Florida & NJ, send them to both the ex and the in-laws. Make your airline reservations, hotel accomodations, etc. Start looking for an attorney in NJ set up so if she trys to jack him on seeing the kids you are prepared. Be pro-active.
this thread makes it very clear that seperation of church and state is a good thing.....
Anyhow, not that it really matters what these people (or any others for that matter worship or don't) a quick search (one example) shows yes, in certain segments of judaism children of a non jewish mother can become jewish, and at least can be welcomed to share in the faith of thier dad....
http://jewish.com/page.php?do=page&cat_id=1040
Anyhow, not that it really matters what these people (or any others for that matter worship or don't) a quick search (one example) shows yes, in certain segments of judaism children of a non jewish mother can become jewish, and at least can be welcomed to share in the faith of thier dad....
http://jewish.com/page.php?do=page&cat_id=1040
Thanks for the tip on the airports.....we are looking for any way to minimize costs!
We have started the certified letter......I am attaching this form below, what do you think of it? I found it at deltabravo.net, I just am not sure what to think about the wording at the bottom saying that if she has a problem with the visitation, she needs to let him know.....I think that's giving her wiggle room, which she will certainly take. What do you all think?
He has been calling her cell phone, the NJ number and the FL number, and there is no answer at any of those numbers. Also, she wrote him an email that stated where their children's "permanent residence" was (I think she had to do this per the CO) and the phone number and responded to his part of the email saying that he had been calling, please pick up the phone, etc., and she told him that she had not received any phone calls on any of those numbers. Of course, that's a lie, he has called all of those numbers numerous times. We will get his phone records to prove this as well. In this same email he wrote his intentions about the 26th and gave 60 day notice of exercising his visitation for Feb., March, Apr., May......she did not acknowledge any of that part of his email (we didn't think she would) and thus we are taking appropriate action with the certified mail.
Here's that letter that we are sending by certified mail.....we will attach flight schedules as well with this....
Return Receipt Article (number)
To: (your ex's name)
From: (your name)
Date
today's date)
Re: Notice of intent to exercise visitation.
As per our (divorce decree, custody & visitation orders) I am writing you to notify you that it is my intention to exercise court ordered visitation, as outlined in the court order, (page #, section #, paragraph #), on the following dates and times.
Pick up: (Date, time, place, and person picking child up)
Return: (date, time, place, and person returning child)
Contact information: (Number where she can contact YOU and child during your period of possession).
Should these dates and times present a problem for you, respond via U.S. Mail by (date) with alternate dates and/or times so that I may have sufficient time to adjust my schedule accordingly to the alternate dates and/or times. If I receive no response to the contrary, I will assume these dates and times to be acceptable to you.
I look forward to seeing (child’s name).
Thank you, (Sincerely, etc. etc.)
(Your name, address and telephone number)
CC: Court Clerk, Court # (number), (County)
Return Receipt Article #: (number)
Reference: Case # (Divorce case number, found on the front page of the divorce decree or in the custody or visitation orders)
We have started the certified letter......I am attaching this form below, what do you think of it? I found it at deltabravo.net, I just am not sure what to think about the wording at the bottom saying that if she has a problem with the visitation, she needs to let him know.....I think that's giving her wiggle room, which she will certainly take. What do you all think?
He has been calling her cell phone, the NJ number and the FL number, and there is no answer at any of those numbers. Also, she wrote him an email that stated where their children's "permanent residence" was (I think she had to do this per the CO) and the phone number and responded to his part of the email saying that he had been calling, please pick up the phone, etc., and she told him that she had not received any phone calls on any of those numbers. Of course, that's a lie, he has called all of those numbers numerous times. We will get his phone records to prove this as well. In this same email he wrote his intentions about the 26th and gave 60 day notice of exercising his visitation for Feb., March, Apr., May......she did not acknowledge any of that part of his email (we didn't think she would) and thus we are taking appropriate action with the certified mail.
Here's that letter that we are sending by certified mail.....we will attach flight schedules as well with this....
Return Receipt Article (number)
To: (your ex's name)
From: (your name)
Date
today's date) Re: Notice of intent to exercise visitation.
As per our (divorce decree, custody & visitation orders) I am writing you to notify you that it is my intention to exercise court ordered visitation, as outlined in the court order, (page #, section #, paragraph #), on the following dates and times.
Pick up: (Date, time, place, and person picking child up)
Return: (date, time, place, and person returning child)
Contact information: (Number where she can contact YOU and child during your period of possession).
Should these dates and times present a problem for you, respond via U.S. Mail by (date) with alternate dates and/or times so that I may have sufficient time to adjust my schedule accordingly to the alternate dates and/or times. If I receive no response to the contrary, I will assume these dates and times to be acceptable to you.
I look forward to seeing (child’s name).
Thank you, (Sincerely, etc. etc.)
(Your name, address and telephone number)
CC: Court Clerk, Court # (number), (County)
Return Receipt Article #: (number)
Reference: Case # (Divorce case number, found on the front page of the divorce decree or in the custody or visitation orders)
newlywed03
Member
Now you're talking!