divorce at 54

[BBBAK76]

What is the name of your state? What is the name of your state? new york

i am 54 years old and unemployed, and my marriage has been loveless for years, recently, i met my first true love again, and we resumed our love, problem, guilt tormented me and told spouse, of course we are considering divorce. i have no income will i be able to get spousal alimony even though i committed adultry. we have been married for 33years. my spouse says i will end up homeless. i woud just like something to get by until i could make my own. help

 

[vrzirn]

The first law for those considering infidelity is:
When found out, deny, deny, deny.
Confessing, without a blue dress in the closet, is the height of foolishness. Now you have gotten yourself in a real pickle.
Go see an attorney and find out what your share of the assets will be.

 

[Bigmactn]

Spousal Support

Loveless marriage? For 33 Years? Was it that you got bored with each other? Have you two gotten so used to each other you had the knowledge of what the other would do, say or wanted. Would the two of you give JUST a little for the other? The Grass is greener on the other side. BUT……… What made it greener then the grass you have? If you can answer that look in your own back yard and you just may find the same item Just need a LITTLE work on. You see, I LOVED my Ex until she got bored. I would have forgiven her if she would have only told me what it was that she was looking for. I also had 32years lost.