we have been to the ins office once and spoke with someone there who was an officer,but im pretty positve it wasnt the big interview because they didnt ask any personal questions at all.This situation is heartbreaking for me,because im so confused weather he did or didnt marry me for his papers,but all the signs are there,even though he treats me great,our personal life isnt normal.im so upset ive been going to a therapist for 2 yrs of our 3 yr marriage.How would i know for sure,i cant think of any way to find out other than to find out if hes got a wife at home.How could i do that?