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[minerzlegal]

Is this General Hospital or Divorce Court? Ncsaddad quit taking the blame for this. Your condition may have had something to do with your wifes sudden coldness, but I doubt it was the stone that broke the camels back. For whatever reason she has decided she wants out, believe me you don't want all the details, it will just make it worse. Pull at least have the money from all accounts so she doesn't leave you without a penny to live on. Get an attorney, get this over with and get on with finding someone that appreciates you for who you are. Nothing better than ending an old worn out relationship with a bright new one. You can't fix this. Good Luck.

 

[Jenny0372]

ROTFLMAO! Then had to go get my rib brace I laughed so hard, old rib injury!

I have a wide variety of training and experience, I rebuilt my first carburetor when I was 16, so what king of car problem are you having that raises a legal issue?

I have education/training/experience/certification in neuropsychology, neuroscience, medicine, pharmacy, forensics, so yes, I trump your emptying bedpans in a nursing home, my mother did that without a high school education. I am colleagues with some of the big names in these fields.

I have not diagnosed anyone. You obviously don't know anything about brain injury and are not competent to understand, that much is apparent by your posts. How can you say there is anything wrong with refering OP to a neuropsychologist for assessment and treatment?

Now just whom is paranoid?

What advice have you offered OP? Nothing so far.

I have not diagnosed anyone [/QUOTE]

Let me QUOTE you again: You have brain damage [/QUOTE]

The "You have brain damage" would be where you made a diagnosis.

The " I have not diagnosed anyone" would make you a liar.

 

[panzertanker]

Rmet is correct...

Jenny,
As much as I hate to say it, OP stated "She has said that I have been changed by the brain tumor and i have changed". This means that the man had a tumor, or what is commonly referred to as a "lesion" of the brain. That, in and of itself, is brain damage , by definition. OP also stated he has had a stroke, which is ALSO neurological damage to the brain; either temporary or permanent.
So, Rmet is correct.
Though, I disagree with making personal attacks when posters disagree with each other. Unfortunately, that very thing happens very frequently in this forum.
OP, seek counseling - either together if she will go or alone if necessary - remember that you may have changed and cannot recognize that. That possible change in your affect, cognition or emotional responses is NOT your fault. Doing nothing to try to help yourself IS.
See if you can fix your marriage, if that is what you want to do, or move on. But always remember to maintain your neurology appointments to ensure that you are as healthy as possible.
Good luck!

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

I have not diagnosed anyone

Let me QUOTE you again: You have brain damage [/QUOTE]

The "You have brain damage" would be where you made a diagnosis.

The " I have not diagnosed anyone" would make you a liar.[/QUOTE]

What is your problem? She gave accurate advice and you don't like it. It is safe to say , you are messing up this person's thread.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I have not diagnosed anyone

Let me QUOTE you again: You have brain damage [/QUOTE]

The "You have brain damage" would be where you made a diagnosis.

The " I have not diagnosed anyone" would make you a liar.[/QUOTE]
Jenny,
That is restating the obvious and providing an explaination, not a diagnosis. It is an example of YOU taking one portion out of context.

This makes your contention of being a nurse very hard to believe, because it exhibits a severe lack of basic medical knowledge and common sense. While it is possible you have emptied bed pans at some point in your life, your current postings continue to demonstrate ignorance and lack of competence.

Please cite just one medical, psychological or neurological source that explicitly states that both brain tumor and stroke are NOT brain damage.

Readers should also note that brain damage may be microscopic and thus may not show up on diagnostic images, but can be detected and measured by other means.

You are a troll and a dangerous troll, because you disrupt another thread and in turn another's life. You gain nothing being a troll other than your own self gratification because you have already lost control in your own life and so strike out at others. You hurt others because of your anger most especially your children.

PLease note that no senior member has challenged what I said including both those in the medical and legal fields.

Please note what other posters here have said including another in the medical field.

Although I don't always agree with rmet4... I will back him/her on this one, as I will reply not only to her post but to the op after this. A brain tumor as well as a stroke does quite often cause brain damage. I don't think her making this assumption is way off. Brain damage doesn't have to mean that he's sitting around with his tongue hanging out and drooling all over himself. Have you dealt with people with head injuries? Have you dealt with people who have neurological damage done in the brain? I have, and although the post didn't give a lot of info(again I will reply) it gave enough to give a pretty accurate diagnosis.

Jenny,
As much as I hate to say it, OP stated "She has said that I have been changed by the brain tumor and i have changed". This means that the man had a tumor, or what is commonly referred to as a "lesion" of the brain. That, in and of itself, is brain damage , by definition. OP also stated he has had a stroke, which is ALSO neurological damage to the brain; either temporary or permanent.
So, Rmet is correct.
Though, I disagree with making personal attacks when posters disagree with each other. Unfortunately, that very thing happens very frequently in this forum.
OP, seek counseling - either together if she will go or alone if necessary - remember that you may have changed and cannot recognize that. That possible change in your affect, cognition or emotional responses is NOT your fault. Doing nothing to try to help yourself IS.
See if you can fix your marriage, if that is what you want to do, or move on. But always remember to maintain your neurology appointments to ensure that you are as healthy as possible.
Good luck!

Let me QUOTE you again: You have brain damage

The "You have brain damage" would be where you made a diagnosis.

The " I have not diagnosed anyone" would make you a liar.[/QUOTE]

What is your problem? She gave accurate advice and you don't like it. It is safe to say , you are messing up this person's thread. [/QUOTE]

My response to you is not a personal attack, I have to respond because your continued posting of FALSE information is disruptive to thie forum.

As I previously stated, you have offered nothing to OP in your post, no advice at all, legal or medical, nothing supportive. You have only come here stalking me because you were caught in lies on your own thread and deleted it thinking no one would notice.

Please get your anger in check and stop going out of your way to hurt people, it isn't becomming.

Once again, THANK YOU Tigger, panzertanker and Paridise for your support