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Email forwarded from ex but written by atty

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ashley361

Member
What is the name of your state?Tx

My daughter ask her mother (answering machine) if she would for go 1 visit, so that she could visit family(Grandparent sout of state). No return call but a e-mail that was written by her atty then forwarded to me from ex's account. She(ex) has sent some pretty ugly e-mail prior when asked to r/s a visit for doctors appt, dentist, school event and etc...She has never allowed my daughter (me)to change weekends or for go any..When it comes to us asking. But ,since moving <100 miles she has c/x at least once a month at her convience. This is always done the day she is to pick her up... She has filed papers asking for resid. custody. She signed away CP to me(Dad) over 5 years ago it is in the Final Divorce Decree. There is nothing stating about moving, travel, school, doctors and/or expenses. Just my daughter is to live with me and I have the right to make all decisions for her that are in her best interest. What about this e-mail thing? I know your atty can advise but can they write response too?
 


LdiJ

Senior Member
ashley361 said:
What is the name of your state?Tx

My daughter ask her mother (answering machine) if she would for go 1 visit, so that she could visit family(Grandparent sout of state). No return call but a e-mail that was written by her atty then forwarded to me from ex's account. She(ex) has sent some pretty ugly e-mail prior when asked to r/s a visit for doctors appt, dentist, school event and etc...She has never allowed my daughter (me)to change weekends or for go any..When it comes to us asking. But ,since moving <100 miles she has c/x at least once a month at her convience. This is always done the day she is to pick her up... She has filed papers asking for resid. custody. She signed away CP to me(Dad) over 5 years ago it is in the Final Divorce Decree. There is nothing stating about moving, travel, school, doctors and/or expenses. Just my daughter is to live with me and I have the right to make all decisions for her that are in her best interest. What about this e-mail thing? I know your atty can advise but can they write response too?

I am sorry, but I really couldn't make heads or tails of that.
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
LdiJ said:
I am sorry, but I really couldn't make heads or tails of that.

Thank God - I thought it was me. However, I think the gist of the question was whether Mom's attorney can write a response, and then have Mom email it to Dad. Which I don't see as an issue whatsoever. It's not appreciably different than the lawyer writing a letter and sending it directly. I've had my own lawyer tell me what to write to the ex about whatever issue - and vet the email before I send it.

OP - you're picking nits.

(edit) And why can't your daughter go visit family on your time, instead of interfering with Mom's visitation?
 

ashley361

Member
It is my time!!!

stealth2 said:
Thank God - I thought it was me. However, I think the gist of the question was whether Mom's attorney can write a response, and then have Mom email it to Dad. Which I don't see as an issue whatsoever. It's not appreciably different than the lawyer writing a letter and sending it directly. I've had my own lawyer tell me what to write to the ex about whatever issue - and vet the email before I send it.

OP - you're picking nits.

(edit) And why can't your daughter go visit family on your time, instead of interfering with Mom's visitation?
Mom will only miss 1 two day vistations!!! The 3 weeks she will be there is my time........NPC get her everyother weekend.....
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
ashley361 said:
Mom will only miss 1 two day vistations!!! The 3 weeks she will be there is my time........NPC get her everyother weekend.....

No - those two days are MOM'S TIME! YOU do not get to choose to ignore that - unless you're looking forward to a contempt citation. SO you either find a sweet deal to offer Mom (i.e. extra time if she'll let kiddo skip those particular two days), or you arrange the trip so she leaves the day she comes back (or the next) from one weekend and returns the day (or the one before) she is scheduled to go to Mom's. Your parents do NOT trump time with Mom. HOW DARE YOU?
 

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