Ending child support

[SIN EATER]

Did you ever get orders regarding the Change of Status (child moving to other parent & new parenting plan, hopefully Standard Possession Orders) ?

If so, the SPO have a section for visitation for parents who live more than 100 miles apart.

If Mom wants to customize visitation due to her move, have her file & pay for the hearing. Check whether there's a Dispute Resolution Center affiliated with your courthouse; they'll do the mediated parenting plan for little or no cost (you or Mom have to file it, but the wording is appropriate for a court's order).
Include within the mediated plan, that Mom pays all costs of transportation as the move was her decision.

If, by some unGodly misadventure, you still haven't been to court (with the OAG to end the c/s and change status of your child to your custody), then review the SPOs and request that they include in the prelude to the SPOs that Mom pay all costs of transportation.
Hopefully, Mom is already paying you c/s ... ??

 

[sytech]

I have filed

I am waiting on OAG to contact me with our child support hearing date. I have called and they keep telling me that they will contact me through mail. I have not received anything apparently they say they are backed up. My sons mom is moving at the end of this month I have told OAG this already if she moves and is unemployed what happens? Will they imput an income based on what she was making @ her last job? I at this time dont have the money to go back to court to modify the visitation to include a long distance visitation plan. I have let her know she needs to pay to get this done. SO do I go by the standard order if she doesn't go back and modify the order?

 

[sytech]

umm so the saga continues

My sons mom is now moving in June. I have called AG and they state they are behind so as of now no child support has been received. But aparently she has been discussing the fact that she is leaving on the 25th and that he should talk to me about leaving with her early (her summer visitation starts on July 1st) I have let her know that it is not appropriate for her to discuss this stuff with our son and that she should in the future discuss this with me. She is now upset. Our sons last day of school was on the 6th and the teacher asked my wife would take the tacos and the salad for thier end of year party and she said sure. My wife voluteers at the school since we have a daughter goes there as well. My son was excited. My wife and I have been to every single event with the exception of his last field trip. I called her and let her know that this would be a great opportunity for her to spend time with our son before she moves she agreed and went. Well, our son was excited about my wife making the food and going to the party but he wanted his mom and my wife both there so I let her know about the party and she says she wants to provide the tacos and the salad. My wife said sure. Well, his mom shows up almost 1 hour late and when she does show up she and my wife are sitting with our son and she starts asking my wife if I had told her about taking our son with her early (for summer visit). She tells her that its only 5 days earlier. My wife was upset because it wasn't the time nor the place. My wife texts me because they ran out of drinks for the party so I went and took more drinks for my sons class.

I am just tired. I have told my sons mom time and time again that she needs to discuss any matters about our son with me not my wife and not my son. The story doesn't end there. My sons moms husband called my wife to see what had happened at the party. My wife let him know that it was not her place to say anything and he goes on to say that he feels like son is being put in the middle of everything and my wife finally just lets him know. That I had decided against our son going because we already had plans that according to the order my sons mom had until April 15th to give notice of her intent to get our son for extended visitation and that when his mom didn't do that, that we made plans for the whole month of June and that we would actually be out of town June 27th through the 30th and that if they were leaving the 25th that would interfere with our plans. She let him know that in the future not to contact her that my sons mother needed to contact me in regards to our son. That they shouldn't get in the middle of it.

I am trying really hard to encourage the relationship that he has with his mom but she is just screwing with him. She tells our son to inform me when she cant make visits when she could just text to let me know with out making him the messanger. I'm just getting so tired of her messing with his head and she tells him that when he is 12 he will get to choose. Our son is having trouble adjusting because he says that he's going to get to move with his mom. when he asks me I just let him know that it is something that the adults and a judge will decide.and until then he is with me and he will listen and respect my wife and I while under our roof. How do I get her to stop filling our sons heads with stuff he doesn't need to worry about. Any suggestions would be great!!

 

[TNBSMommy]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/first-time-poster-468001.html


Is this your ex?

 

[Just Blue]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/first-time-poster-468001.html


Is this your ex?

Yup! That would be her in all her glorious skankiness!!

 

[Ohiogal]

Can we put this all on one thread? He has one going in child custody as well -- I pointed out the same thing. Sorry but confusion. I am getting old.

 

[TNBSMommy]

oh oops, lol I didn't even read his other thread, I just remembered reading the same story backwards the other day...

 

[Isis1]

hey OP, your ex is a piece of work .

i saw the name and started growling at the computer. i'm going to walk away for a moment.....