dpech66 said:
The rule I learned from my law instructor is this:
if the woman breaks off the engagement, she should return the ring. If the man breaks off the engagement, the woman should keep the ring.
My response:
It depends upon the State we're talking about.
Some States, like California, consider it a gift given in contemplation of marriage; and, in that case dpech66 would be correct. The donee of an engagement gift is entitled to retain possession thereof when the marriage contract is breached by the donor without any fault on the donee's part. (Civ. Code, § 1590.)See 13 Cal.Jur. 41; 24 Am.Jur. 760. [Simonian v. Donoian (1950) 96 Cal.App.2d 259, 215 P.2d 119]
However, in other States, it is considered an outright gift, without condition or obligation. Therefore, if that's the law in our writer's State, the ring stays in the possession of the recipient - - no matter who breaks the engagement.
IAAL
[Edited by I AM ALWAYS LIABLE on 04-21-2001 at 01:57 AM]