Ex is now causing major drama

[StampGirl]

This lady is a piece of work.

I feel for the child's mom. Someone send HER the money to hire a kickbutt attorney to file the RO on this step-parent. UGH.

Makes me want to call my EX's Wifey and say that even though she drives me and the kids CRAZY, she still isn't as stupid as this person is.

OF COURSE you have to provide diapers, wipes, food etc when YOUR HUSBANDS CHILD comes to visit!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you really that ignorant??

 

[Ohiogal]

sure thing baystategirl, why is that? I see several people on this site giving advice that's not qualified

Lets talk qualified and those who post on these forums -- and I will confine it to just those of us in the Family Law Section, shall we?
Those with law degrees (as in Juris Doctorates) to the best of my knowledge:
BoredAttorney, Senior Judge, Belize Breeze, Ohiogal

Those with relevant positions dealing with the law
Courtclerk, Casa,

Those with tax experience:
LDij and Ginny

Educated seniors:
FairisFair, Silverplum, Cjane, Gracie, Stealth, Nextwife, Moburkes, Baystategirl, Jbowman, Carl,

Educated others:
Clt747, Ohreally (or another incarnation IF set aside some of the attitude), Profmum, acmb05, Tuffbreak

Bitter but could be a wealth of information if they would just set it aside:
Bali Hai

Warm and Fuzzy individuals who give NO legal advice either right or wrong:
OhSweetness

Uneducated twits who just run their mouths:
LeftOut, Stepmom4ever

I am reserving judgment on all others at this point but am slowly moving people in to one of those categories. Please note where you fall Stepmom4ever. Okay? I may have forgotten some people but it was not due to being cruel but rather this was just to make a point.

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

Lets talk qualified and those who post on these forums -- and I will confine it to just those of us in the Family Law Section, shall we?
Those with law degrees (as in Juris Doctorates) to the best of my knowledge:
BoredAttorney, Senior Judge, Belize Breeze, Ohiogal

Those with relevant positions dealing with the law
Courtclerk, Casa,

Those with tax experience:
LDij and Ginny

Educated seniors:
FairisFair, Silverplum, Cjane, Gracie, Stealth, Nextwife, Moburkes, Baystategirl, Jbowman, Carl,

Educated others:
Clt747, Ohreally (or another incarnation IF set aside some of the attitude), Profmum, acmb05, Tuffbreak

Bitter but could be a wealth of information if they would just set it aside:
Bali Hai

Warm and Fuzzy individuals who give NO legal advice either right or wrong:
OhSweetness

Uneducated twits who just run their mouths:
LeftOut, Stepmom4ever

I am reserving judgment on all others at this point but am slowly moving people in to one of those categories. Please note where you fall Stepmom4ever. Okay? I may have forgotten some people but it was not due to being cruel but rather this was just to make a point.

I feel soooo left out(OMG, did I just say that?)

 

[Ohiogal]

I feel soooo left out(OMG, did I just say that?)

Do NOT be feeling left out -- that would probably get you arrested or hit up for child support.

 

[wileybunch]

I feel soooo left out(OMG, did I just say that?)

We're in the semi-educated twits category.

Do NOT be feeling left out -- that would probably get you arrested or hit up for child support.

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

We're in the semi-educated twits category.

I can live with that

 

[VeronicaLodge]

We're in the semi-educated twits category.

i think i fall there too!

 

[escape2paradise]

Major drama? I think the major drama occurred when your hubby boinked another, "forgot" to tell you and then 9 mos later out popped the new bambino. Diapers, wipes etc....not so much drama!

BTW your words of wisdom on marriage are ridiculous. Have you ever heard of the phrase those who live in glass houses?

 

[qurice]

Personally, I think it's incredibly petty on the part of BOTH parents to acting this way.

My ex pulled a similar stunt when my wife and I had a baby. She knew we had the stuff at home already so quit sending items she normally would like wipes, or OTC meds, etc.

I asked her to continue to pack things as she did previously, but if I asked for reimbursement on 5 wipes, and a dropper full of childrens tylenol I'd just look like an ass.

It's a good idea to have your own stuff on hand anyway, just buy it.

 

[StampGirl]

This is all so petty.

Eveyrone should provide what your children need whether they live with you all the time or not.

I packed a diaper bag with supplies when my Ex was only taking our youngest for a few hours but when he started overnights, he had to supply everything. If I had to send down formula (expensive and hard to find) with him, he always returned a new can of it when the kids came home. Sheeesh.

But the OP is a child herself. So what can we expect??

 

[Golfball]

But the OP is a child herself. So what can we expect??

Packing a diaper bag for her?

 

[wileybunch]

I agree it's petty, but if my infant is going for visits with their father, I would supply all the supplies. I can't imagine playing games with that! I would send the formula (or breast milk) the BABY (baby is what? 2 months old??) is used to, the diapers, the wipes, etc. I actually have a hard time believing the OP's DH's child's mother would not send these things as she did seem to have her act somewhat together with the sound spanking she gave OP for her interference and stalking. I think OP was asking a theoretical or maybe Mom was trying to drive a point home about responsibility (not that OP's DH needs any lectures on that ). Maybe she was referring to the future when all these things are not so touchy with a new life.

I can't stand when CPs play games with their kids about what is/isn't packed so if Mom really IS doing that, shame on her, but I tend to doubt it in the first place.

 

[wileybunch]

Packing a diaper bag for her?

Well, then child's mom has a point.

 

[stepmom4ever]

I agree it's petty, but if my infant is going for visits with their father, I would supply all the supplies. I can't imagine playing games with that! I would send the formula (or breast milk) the BABY (baby is what? 2 months old??) is used to, the diapers, the wipes, etc. I actually have a hard time believing the OP's DH's child's mother would not send these things as she did seem to have her act somewhat together with the sound spanking she gave OP for her interference and stalking. I think OP was asking a theoretical or maybe Mom was trying to drive a point home about responsibility (not that OP's DH needs any lectures on that ). Maybe she was referring to the future when all these things are not so touchy with a new life.

I can't stand when CPs play games with their kids about what is/isn't packed so if Mom really IS doing that, shame on her, but I tend to doubt it in the first place.

Bio mom packs the milk bottles but nothing else. She said she don't trust me making her son's milk...whatever

 

[Ohiogal]

Bio mom packs the milk bottles but nothing else. She said she don't trust me making her son's milk...whatever

With the attitude you have shown, I wouldn't trust you to make it either. Maturity is NOT your strong suit.