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carmonal03
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What is the name of your state? MI
Well after much frustration, and confusion I finally ahve a temporary order in place the friend of the ccourt called me today to go pick it up and my daughters mom FLIPPED. Called me at work and called me every name in the book.
Order states: Parties shall share joint legal custody. They physical custody issue shall be determined after psychological(sp?) evaluations have been completed on plaintiff (me) and defendant.
While evaluations are pending Breana will reside with the father (plaintiff) from 7pm on sunday evening until 1pm on friday.
Defendant shall have minor every weekend from Friday at 1pm until sunday at 6pm sunday. Defendant (mother) will pick minor up from father on friday and plaintiff (father) will pick minor up from mother on sunday at 6pm. BOTH plaintiff and defendant are to pay monthly installments of $30 untl reimbursement is complete in paying for the psych evaluation.
There will be NO order for child support until further and permanent action is taken in the matter of physical custody.
Then the order goes on to specifics about holiday schedules etc.
It dosent say just when they are scheduling this psychiactric evaluation on us but has anyone gone through this before, and what should I expect? I have nothing to hide so im not really afraid, but rather anxious or nervous about the process.
Are there certain things I should abstain from during this evaluation? Since breanas mother has been known quite well to lose her temper with police officers AND court officials, Im just waiting to see if they ask her something and she loses her temper with the evaluator, im definately not ruling out that possibility.
Also the order states that we each have 21 days to contest this order, and she has already let me know that she plans to contest this, which is fine, I know that is her right to do that if thats what she wants, but how likely is the possibility of the judge overturning this? Is now the time to get letters of character on my behalf and add them to my case or should I wait?
I have social workers, a cps worker, and even my employer and co-workers willingo write these letters about me. All she has are her family willing to write letters for her. Are letters from family really taken serious as it is qite obvious that family tend to "stray from the truth" when it comes to testifying for a loved one.
Eventhough I am not out of the woods yet on this issue, I would like to thank everyone that offered advice and/or words of ecouragement through their replies in my posts. I feel that it would have been difficult for me to get this far in my case, AND keep a positive attitude without the help of the "freeadvice.com family" Thank you very much, from my daughter and I to you.
leo
Well after much frustration, and confusion I finally ahve a temporary order in place the friend of the ccourt called me today to go pick it up and my daughters mom FLIPPED. Called me at work and called me every name in the book.
Order states: Parties shall share joint legal custody. They physical custody issue shall be determined after psychological(sp?) evaluations have been completed on plaintiff (me) and defendant.
While evaluations are pending Breana will reside with the father (plaintiff) from 7pm on sunday evening until 1pm on friday.
Defendant shall have minor every weekend from Friday at 1pm until sunday at 6pm sunday. Defendant (mother) will pick minor up from father on friday and plaintiff (father) will pick minor up from mother on sunday at 6pm. BOTH plaintiff and defendant are to pay monthly installments of $30 untl reimbursement is complete in paying for the psych evaluation.
There will be NO order for child support until further and permanent action is taken in the matter of physical custody.
Then the order goes on to specifics about holiday schedules etc.
It dosent say just when they are scheduling this psychiactric evaluation on us but has anyone gone through this before, and what should I expect? I have nothing to hide so im not really afraid, but rather anxious or nervous about the process.
Are there certain things I should abstain from during this evaluation? Since breanas mother has been known quite well to lose her temper with police officers AND court officials, Im just waiting to see if they ask her something and she loses her temper with the evaluator, im definately not ruling out that possibility.
Also the order states that we each have 21 days to contest this order, and she has already let me know that she plans to contest this, which is fine, I know that is her right to do that if thats what she wants, but how likely is the possibility of the judge overturning this? Is now the time to get letters of character on my behalf and add them to my case or should I wait?
I have social workers, a cps worker, and even my employer and co-workers willingo write these letters about me. All she has are her family willing to write letters for her. Are letters from family really taken serious as it is qite obvious that family tend to "stray from the truth" when it comes to testifying for a loved one.
Eventhough I am not out of the woods yet on this issue, I would like to thank everyone that offered advice and/or words of ecouragement through their replies in my posts. I feel that it would have been difficult for me to get this far in my case, AND keep a positive attitude without the help of the "freeadvice.com family" Thank you very much, from my daughter and I to you.
leo
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