Florida modification

[ILOVEMYGSM3]

well in that case

i suppose the military shoudlnt post info like that, if a civil court is going to use it anyways....oh, and you don't get dependent bah unless the dependents live with you, or you qualify for bah differential...and that means the CS has to be more than the difference between dependent and single bah...our other roomate got divorced in illinois, and his lawyer, as well as the judge, agreed with that article....so the ex-wife's idea of him bringing home 3300 a month went down the tube...as that manual states its not to be used in civil proceedings, and roomates lawyer was based here at camp pendleton with us, and had forwarded roomates info to a mlilitary lawyer somewhere out there that went to court with roomate.....bah is a privledge, not a neccessity....in fact, my divorce isnt even final, and since my husband refused to give me ANY support, b/c he said i was living with 2 males, that instead of telling my husband he didnt have to give me support, they took away his bah(as we do not live together, and its a marital privledge, as he is not an e4 per USMC(or his command)rules)....however, they still make him give me money out of his regular base pay....also, if your husband finds a military lawyer, that lawyer will argue that as well, as well as some civilian lawyers.....

 

[Noelle_71]

ILOVE:

Please do not be offended...the suppositions that you made in your first post are incorrect. 1) A civil court CAN and WILL use BAH/BAS (or a myriad of other items) when computing support. 2) Once he is divorced, if there is a support order, he CAN CONTINUE to receive BAH even if he is required to move into barracks.

Support of children after a divorce is an ORDER for military personnel. Read what you've posted above. The information you've quoted is intended only for a temporary support calculation for internal military use. It has no relevance (and is NOT INTENDED) to be used as a basis for any judicial proceeding.

Anyone with military experience want to chime in?

*shaking my head all confused like*
Huh? I'm so lost.
My ex and I have been divorced for almost 13 years, he's remarried. She's military too. He gets BAQ with dependent rate and she gets w/out. They both get BAS. He owns a home. I have never requested an increase in the support, but it's well past time to do so. I only wanted to know what to expect so I could try to settle this with him outside of court.
Well, he won't settle anything. He refuses to even discuss raising the support 1 cent. So, sadly, I'll have to go through all this baloney.
Thanks!