goldigger

[kinwi]

North Carolina
Help! My eldery father (89) is set to marry a 59 yr old goldigger. She has him completely bamboozled. He won't sign a pre-nup, and is already giving her money from my late mothe'rs trust. We have evidence of her false intentions, but he won't believe it. What to do to protect him and his assets from her? She is making him get married in Ohio. As soon as she gets his name, she is going to put him a nursing home, and take him to the cleaners. We've been told he is a "Willing Victim" and cannot be declared because he is not a threat to himself or others. Please help.

 

[BlondiePB]

North Carolina
Help! My eldery father (89) is set to marry a 59 yr old goldigger. She has him completely bamboozled. He won't sign a pre-nup, and is already giving her money from my late mothe'rs trust. We have evidence of her false intentions, but he won't believe it. What to do to protect him and his assets from her? She is making him get married in Ohio. As soon as she gets his name, she is going to put him a nursing home, and take him to the cleaners. We've been told he is a "Willing Victim" and cannot be declared because he is not a threat to himself or others. Please help.

As long as dad is competent, he can do as he pleases. Who told you dad is a "willing victim"?

 

[anteater]

As long as dad is competent, he can do as he pleases. Who told you dad is a "willing victim"?

Oprah? Dr. Phil?

 

[weenor]

North Carolina
Help! My eldery father (89) is set to marry a 59 yr old goldigger. She has him completely bamboozled. He won't sign a pre-nup, and is already giving her money from my late mothe'rs trust. We have evidence of her false intentions, but he won't believe it. What to do to protect him and his assets from her? She is making him get married in Ohio. As soon as she gets his name, she is going to put him a nursing home, and take him to the cleaners. We've been told he is a "Willing Victim" and cannot be declared because he is not a threat to himself or others. Please help.

Guess you'll have to go make your own money.

 

[pojo2]

What to do to protect him and his assets from her?

Why does it sound like the assets are the important thing in your query?

Could it be Dad found someone in his latter years and the "HEIRS" are worried that THEY may not get DAD'S assets now?

Curious what kind of EVIDENCE do you have?

 

[BlondiePB]

Oprah? Dr. Phil?

Too funny. It's time to get out the clairvoyant tin helmet.

 

[kinwi]

As long as dad is competent, he can do as he pleases. Who told you dad is a "willing victim"?

An attorney told us the "Willing Victim" thing. It's sad to watch him be used so.

 

[kinwi]

What to do to protect him and his assets from her?

Why does it sound like the assets are the important thing in your query?

Could it be Dad found someone in his latter years and the "HEIRS" are worried that THEY may not get DAD'S assets now?

Curious what kind of EVIDENCE do you have?

We have audio tapes, and relatives of the woman have also informed us that she is in it for the money. Yes, the 'heirs' would ike to have the money, but would give it all up to charity to keep her from having any of it. She doesn't deserve a dime. She is mean to him and not a caring loving person. Now we are not even invited to the wedding. Heck, I haven't even met her.

 

[pojo2]

and relatives of the woman have also informed us that she is in it for the money.

Bitter relatives, jealous relatives, vicious relatives?

She doesn't deserve a dime.

How do YOU know what she does or does not deserve you haven't even met her? YOU do not know what she does or does not bring to his life and frankly

She is mean to him and not a caring loving person.

More rumors coming from yet another 3rd party since YOU have not met her?

Audio tapes of whom? Her telling someone all this deviousness she is doing or more third party gossip between the "relatives".

Is he of sound mind?

As soon as she gets his name, she is going to put him a nursing home, and take him to the cleaners.

YOUR thoughts or is there proof?

Look I am not saying you might not have reason to worry but you sure are hung up on the money thing.

If it were my Dad I would be shouting from the rafters that he had someone to spend his elder years with no matter how much inheritance they go through in the process preferably ALL of it.

IF it were my Dad and I suspected foul play I would nail her.

I have learned over the years that the elderly do weird things because of some pretty weird thinking at times but there ain't nothing you can do about it short of having them declared incompetent through a guardianship hearing.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

The plain fact is you have no legal standing to do anything. Your father can take all of his money and give it to the ugliest hooker with tits down to her knees and there's still not a thing you can do.

It's HIS money, HIS estate and HIS life.