harassing letters

[SAK2000]

sickofpsychos,

If this person is a school principal who deals with kids on a daily basis, why wouldn't you want to contact the school board. If I had kids going to that school, I think I would want someone to make that call or write that letter.

I could be wrong but my guess is that you don't want the affair to become public knowledge. However, the affair is small potatoes compared to the real issue here. Don't send the letters back. Keep them. You might need them.....as EVIDENCE.

Please know: this is only my opinion. I haven't walked in your shoes. So, good luck and let me know what you decide, will ya?

 

[charlie neville]

FKNA- You state categorically,...

... "Yes, this WOULD constitute stalking." A better choice of words might have been "could." I think too, given the facts presented so far, you'd be hard pressed to find a DA or Prosecutor who'd want to take this before a jury.

It appears to me that sickofpsychos simply wants this to end without a lot of publicity, where as the other person doesn't seem to fear publicity. Though I don't understand where this fearlessness comes from given that she's a school principal and her husband an attorney.

Sickof, have you spoken to an attorney? Consider doing so it seems these people have far more to lose from a lot of publicity than you. An attorney can contact them and convey your intentions and it not be construed as a threat, harassment or stalking.

Any idea why she waited four years to start this?

Well, good luck and I would be interested in knowing how this is resolved.

charlie

 

[sickofpsychos]

Charlie,

I have written and mailed my letter to her and her husband letting them know I want no further contact or I will take legal action against them professionally and personally. We'll see if anything else happens.

I have no idea why she waited this long to start this. I do know from speaking to other people that they have been going to marital counseling for four years, psychologists for four years and that this topic is a daily occurrence in their marriage.

The reason I haven't gone public with it yet is just because I wish to do no more harm and cause any further hurt. I know this woman is suffering mentally and I truly wish the best for her. I feel if legal action were taken, it would surely send her over the edge. However, if she decides to put herself in that position by contacting me further after receiving my request for her to cease, it will have been her decision to be in the spotlight and lose her career and reputation.

Thanks for your comments. Each one of the posts forces me to see things in a different light. I will keep you informed of the outcome.