EasyTarget123
Junior Member
Illinois
my ex boyfriend has been harrassing me through his friends and any time he gets a new girlfriend about a picture i have on facebook of the two of us. the picture is us standing next to one another. at first it was because he was tagged in the photo, so i removed all things linking him to the photo, and then it was beacuse he was in it, he has had 3 girlfriends since we broke up and each time they have contacted me and threatened me on his behalf. most recently, on december 26th, he drove his current girlfriend of 3 months to my house with some friends to beat me up. she had been threatening me for 2 months and i had replied to her threats with jokes or saying i didnt have time to deal with her or telling her i would call the cops. well on december 26th, they were driving passt my house at a dangerous speed and i had a family party going on. my ex was the driver as i stated before. they had been calling me restrictedly all night and sending me threats on facebook saying i'd know when they were going to come for me. i have witnesses to the calls. finnally my older sisters friend called the cops because they almost hit a car. the cop took the information, but all he did was call them. even after they called and texted me while he was there. he said that since they were in a different town he couldnt go to their house. The officer did instruct them not to contact me anymore. but they started contactinng my younger sister until she pissed them off by correcting the grammer in their threats and insults to her. To this day, they still talk about me on their facebooks. i want it to stop, once he gets a new girlfriend its going to start all over. and im not even friends with him on facebook. Should i file harrasment charges against my ex, who is clearly provoking the situation each time? And if i do, should i pursue a restraining order, temporary or permanent?
my ex boyfriend has been harrassing me through his friends and any time he gets a new girlfriend about a picture i have on facebook of the two of us. the picture is us standing next to one another. at first it was because he was tagged in the photo, so i removed all things linking him to the photo, and then it was beacuse he was in it, he has had 3 girlfriends since we broke up and each time they have contacted me and threatened me on his behalf. most recently, on december 26th, he drove his current girlfriend of 3 months to my house with some friends to beat me up. she had been threatening me for 2 months and i had replied to her threats with jokes or saying i didnt have time to deal with her or telling her i would call the cops. well on december 26th, they were driving passt my house at a dangerous speed and i had a family party going on. my ex was the driver as i stated before. they had been calling me restrictedly all night and sending me threats on facebook saying i'd know when they were going to come for me. i have witnesses to the calls. finnally my older sisters friend called the cops because they almost hit a car. the cop took the information, but all he did was call them. even after they called and texted me while he was there. he said that since they were in a different town he couldnt go to their house. The officer did instruct them not to contact me anymore. but they started contactinng my younger sister until she pissed them off by correcting the grammer in their threats and insults to her. To this day, they still talk about me on their facebooks. i want it to stop, once he gets a new girlfriend its going to start all over. and im not even friends with him on facebook. Should i file harrasment charges against my ex, who is clearly provoking the situation each time? And if i do, should i pursue a restraining order, temporary or permanent?