Located in tulsa, Oklahoma.
He did not want a baby when she told him about the pregnancy and forced her to listen to him about an abortion, then had an attorney write her to ask about her intentions.
He called shortly after my granddaughter was born and wanted to see his daughter, but didn’t want to assume any of a father’s responsibilities. He refused to sign an affidavit to establish paternity, called often, but only asked to see his daughter once. He was more interested in my daughter’s activities. When she started telling him that he would not be allowed to a play dad, his family began calling to try and influence her just as they did before the birth. He visited his daughter only 3 times totaling 5 hours in 11 weeks following her birth. At that time my daughter applied for a protective order because of nuisance telephone calls, a vehicle parked at our home to observe her activities, and fear for her safety. She ended the order after 90 days to avoid additional conflict. His attorney had served her with a subpoena to appear is his office to answer questions related to the PO in spite of the judge’s instructions to leave her alone.
He and his family ceased calling and showed no further interest for 3 years, other than an occasional drive by to see where we lived.
His petition asked for joint custody, surname change, and visitation. The current court order is temporary resulting from 3 appearances in 7 months. He has unsupervised visits one night each week for 3-1/2 hours and two 7-hour visits, one on each weekend day, every other week. He started paying $250 per month for child support after the first court date.
He has stated that he thinks his daughter is ready for overnight visits. It is unclear where he will have her sleep. She is 42 months old, naps for 3 hours daily, and sleeps 11 hours each night. He does not recognize her need to nap during his visits. Many times she returns in her words, “tired and hungry”.
He is 27 years old, has a college degree, has not been steadily employed, and lives with another unmarried male. (One might think that he has been under-employed or unemployed in effort to reduce his amount of support).
My daughter is also 27, holds a bachelors degree, owns a home, has worked for the same corporation since college, and provides medical coverage for her daughter.
She goes back to court next week.
Can he be granted all of what has been requested in his petition?
He did not want a baby when she told him about the pregnancy and forced her to listen to him about an abortion, then had an attorney write her to ask about her intentions.
He called shortly after my granddaughter was born and wanted to see his daughter, but didn’t want to assume any of a father’s responsibilities. He refused to sign an affidavit to establish paternity, called often, but only asked to see his daughter once. He was more interested in my daughter’s activities. When she started telling him that he would not be allowed to a play dad, his family began calling to try and influence her just as they did before the birth. He visited his daughter only 3 times totaling 5 hours in 11 weeks following her birth. At that time my daughter applied for a protective order because of nuisance telephone calls, a vehicle parked at our home to observe her activities, and fear for her safety. She ended the order after 90 days to avoid additional conflict. His attorney had served her with a subpoena to appear is his office to answer questions related to the PO in spite of the judge’s instructions to leave her alone.
He and his family ceased calling and showed no further interest for 3 years, other than an occasional drive by to see where we lived.
His petition asked for joint custody, surname change, and visitation. The current court order is temporary resulting from 3 appearances in 7 months. He has unsupervised visits one night each week for 3-1/2 hours and two 7-hour visits, one on each weekend day, every other week. He started paying $250 per month for child support after the first court date.
He has stated that he thinks his daughter is ready for overnight visits. It is unclear where he will have her sleep. She is 42 months old, naps for 3 hours daily, and sleeps 11 hours each night. He does not recognize her need to nap during his visits. Many times she returns in her words, “tired and hungry”.
He is 27 years old, has a college degree, has not been steadily employed, and lives with another unmarried male. (One might think that he has been under-employed or unemployed in effort to reduce his amount of support).
My daughter is also 27, holds a bachelors degree, owns a home, has worked for the same corporation since college, and provides medical coverage for her daughter.
She goes back to court next week.
Can he be granted all of what has been requested in his petition?
