I agree ther may not be anything legal you can do about it or anything you can do do period but I wanted to say I agree with you so you don't feel overwhelmed with all the negative responses. If it was my child I would be upset also, very upset. Although I can see different view points and the silliness of calling over every decision, I do believe major changes should be to custodial parent and discussed. Everyone keeps saying it will grow back it's not like its a tattoo. I just wonder what they would think if it was a tattoo. It is also can be reversed, at great expense, but reversed. Where is the line that a NCP shouln't take charge. Some dads may be doing it just to piss mom off. What can you do and where is that line. I think poster has a good question.