fightingabuser
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What is the name of your state? OR
I was scheduled to go to court Monday the 23rd for a hearing that my ex requested against the restraining order tht I have on him. I had all my witnesses lined up, the subpeonas delivered, all the medical records, counselors etc. Then my ex and his attorney try fast one. They filed to have this case and the modification on visitation postponed and consolidated. I received a call from the Judge along with the ex's attorney's partner a man that is not even involved in the case, I objected to the consolidation and the postponement they have had a month and a half to get there ducks in a row, sort of speak. But the Judge said he will put that down on the record, but allow this order. WHY? I don't get it! Now it wont be heard until the end of July. I had planned on moving out of the state, there is no jobs here and housing is getting higher by the day. There is nothing here for me and I want to move and not come back. He the ex has forced us to move becuse he is living 3 blocks away and making our lives unbearable. My divorce says that I can move anytime that I want to. We can not live near this abuser any longer. I just dont know why the postponement. I have called the mediation office to set up an appointment, required in Oregon for what I don't know, I will not agree to anything less that supervised visitation because he has abused the children more that once. Its been over a month since the children have spoke to him and 5 weeks since they have visited him, they both resude to go. They are really afraid now because they know his tempter.
I was scheduled to go to court Monday the 23rd for a hearing that my ex requested against the restraining order tht I have on him. I had all my witnesses lined up, the subpeonas delivered, all the medical records, counselors etc. Then my ex and his attorney try fast one. They filed to have this case and the modification on visitation postponed and consolidated. I received a call from the Judge along with the ex's attorney's partner a man that is not even involved in the case, I objected to the consolidation and the postponement they have had a month and a half to get there ducks in a row, sort of speak. But the Judge said he will put that down on the record, but allow this order. WHY? I don't get it! Now it wont be heard until the end of July. I had planned on moving out of the state, there is no jobs here and housing is getting higher by the day. There is nothing here for me and I want to move and not come back. He the ex has forced us to move becuse he is living 3 blocks away and making our lives unbearable. My divorce says that I can move anytime that I want to. We can not live near this abuser any longer. I just dont know why the postponement. I have called the mediation office to set up an appointment, required in Oregon for what I don't know, I will not agree to anything less that supervised visitation because he has abused the children more that once. Its been over a month since the children have spoke to him and 5 weeks since they have visited him, they both resude to go. They are really afraid now because they know his tempter.