Hired a new attny now

[LdiJ]

Please stop telling people how a judge will rule!

Please do not respond to my posts any longer. I have nothing to say to you.

 

[AmyKearsing]

I am no scared of anything being brought up. He wanted us to move to OH b/c he didn't want to help me pay for daycare, so I did. He only saw them a small amount of time in the 1.9 yrs we lived there, so when I moved to NY, he didn't fight it. He said, oh, I can't do anything, bye guys.....

Since when does a 'good' parent pick and choose when they want and do not want to be a parent? I mean not being around for the last 5 years then all of a sudden want to take children away from the only parent they know? I dont care if you are a mom, dad, grandparent, adopitive family...whatever. A child's well being is at stake here!
HOW ABOUT HE MOVES HERE? THEN HE'S W/ THE KIDS MORE AND THEY DON'T HAVE TO LEAVE THEIR LIVES?

But nope, that's no good, he wants to be a cop there in IN and he knows NY would never hire him. He lucked right out there in that tiny town. So I'm thinking to myself, what is more important? Boys well being and happiness overall? Or being a cop in a town of 1,000 people? Obviously we all know that answer.

RMet is a misrable person, so unhappy and judgemental of all. I know my kids are GREAT kids, loved and love so well back, respectful, caring, smart and so much more. So I know I and only I have done right to them. I AM a great mother, ask anyone, and please ask my boys! It's just a shame that people like you are more concerned about other things besides what is best for these poor innocent children.
I feel sorry for you.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I'm not miserable, you just don't want to hear the reality of your situation as it will be presented in court. Your story has changed over time. That was real generous of you to say that he could move to NY, who is miserable

 

[AmyKearsing]

he could move here and what is wrong with that? His children's lives are here and have been for almost 2 years now. And after all this court is said and done it will be way more than that. So why doesn't he move here so he can be more involved? Why should I take them out of a wonderful school, away from a huge house, friends, and a place they like, and me move away from a great paying job, wonderful hours, etc...so he can 'be a dad' now after 4 yrs of not really wanting it? It just makes no sense. I'm looking forward to the court, b/c my side will be out there, all my evidence of abuse from him to me, showing the person he is, and I look forward to the guardian that is for the kids, talking to them, us, teachers, dr's, counselers, etc...I am really looking forward to that.

I think you have made me feel better about my case, b/c hearing you defend his side just sounds obsurd to anyone reading it. So thank you, and I also would rather you not comment to me further on posts. Have a good weekend.

 

[stealth2]

Btw.... a couple of grand is pocket change when it comes to legal fees.

 

[AmyKearsing]

I know that, I'm in the wrong business.
I'm lucky the lawyer I hired now will let me make payments on the final bill to her. So, that helps me out alot.