Darlin', you are simply letting your emotions control your actions.... and your interpretations of the facts...
"i have researched the civil relief act"
*** Do you mean the 'Sailors and Soldiers Relief Act'? If had truly 'researched' it, you would understand that it does NOT apply in this circumstance.
Here is a link to the full Act:
http://www.chinfo.navy.mil/navpalib/questions/ssrelief/usc50top.html
"and it entitles stays for all judicial proceeding my husband is serving his country,"
*** No it doesn't. It DOES provide a 'suspension of civil liabiliities' but that does not apply to the 'valid termination of leases' by the LESSOR (there is a provision allowing the lessee to terminate, but that isn't the case here.)
"he is entitled to be there to respresent himself in a court of law,"
*** Again, that is NOT what the SSRA provides. You are a mature adult (presumably) and are very probably named on the lease also. The purpose of the SSRA is to prevent persons from taking advantage of a member of the Armed Services while on deployment. In this case, you are (presumably) a mature adult and should be able to handle this issue of the end of your lese. You are simply attempting to hide behind the SSRA when it clearly does NOT apply.
"we have done nothing to hinder this landlady"
*** Yes you have. She has every right to terminate a month-to-month lease as long as it is done in accordance with the law. And if she has, and you have refused, then you are hindering her lawful right to HER property.
"and second according to the federal law anyone causing stress upon noticed of said deployment which she even called his work is punishable by jail and fines and or both"
*** Again, a mis-statement of the facts.
"and i being the spouse is protected as well from any stress and according to the appeal,"
*** Again, mis-statement of the facts. And for one more time.... there was no APPEAL!!!
"as long as i kept paying the rent i could stay there,"
*** Correct. The SSRA does protect you from EVICTION. As your post describes it, you were not, nor have you been, EVICTED. The landlord has simply exercised her legal right to not extend your month-to-month lease. That is NOT an eviction.
"which i have done and have many receipts, now i can petition the court to allow me to stop paying the rent, and prove that is has become a bruden to me, however being the nice person, and not wanting to hear the person cry she cant pay her bills i continue to pay,,,"
*** This is frustrating.... what the hell are you smoking to think that you have some right to live free in someone elses house???
"I know for a fact when owning your home you can deduct the taxes and such, so i need my stuff"
*** You are correct there.... a homeowner can deduct taxes and 'such'. As to your 'stuff' statement, HUH???
Okay, enough playing the 100 questions with you. Lets cut to the chase:
You say, "i have researched the civil relief act and it entitles stays for all judicial proceeding my husband is serving his country,"
*** Where does it say that??
You say, "according to the federal law anyone causing stress upon noticed of said deployment which she even called his work is punishable by jail and fines and or both"
*** Where does it say that??
You say, "i can petition the court to allow me to stop paying the rent, and prove that is has become a bruden to me,"
*** Where does it say that??
"i have researched the civil relief act"
*** Do you mean the 'Sailors and Soldiers Relief Act'? If had truly 'researched' it, you would understand that it does NOT apply in this circumstance.
Here is a link to the full Act:
http://www.chinfo.navy.mil/navpalib/questions/ssrelief/usc50top.html
"and it entitles stays for all judicial proceeding my husband is serving his country,"
*** No it doesn't. It DOES provide a 'suspension of civil liabiliities' but that does not apply to the 'valid termination of leases' by the LESSOR (there is a provision allowing the lessee to terminate, but that isn't the case here.)
"he is entitled to be there to respresent himself in a court of law,"
*** Again, that is NOT what the SSRA provides. You are a mature adult (presumably) and are very probably named on the lease also. The purpose of the SSRA is to prevent persons from taking advantage of a member of the Armed Services while on deployment. In this case, you are (presumably) a mature adult and should be able to handle this issue of the end of your lese. You are simply attempting to hide behind the SSRA when it clearly does NOT apply.
"we have done nothing to hinder this landlady"
*** Yes you have. She has every right to terminate a month-to-month lease as long as it is done in accordance with the law. And if she has, and you have refused, then you are hindering her lawful right to HER property.
"and second according to the federal law anyone causing stress upon noticed of said deployment which she even called his work is punishable by jail and fines and or both"
*** Again, a mis-statement of the facts.
"and i being the spouse is protected as well from any stress and according to the appeal,"
*** Again, mis-statement of the facts. And for one more time.... there was no APPEAL!!!
"as long as i kept paying the rent i could stay there,"
*** Correct. The SSRA does protect you from EVICTION. As your post describes it, you were not, nor have you been, EVICTED. The landlord has simply exercised her legal right to not extend your month-to-month lease. That is NOT an eviction.
"which i have done and have many receipts, now i can petition the court to allow me to stop paying the rent, and prove that is has become a bruden to me, however being the nice person, and not wanting to hear the person cry she cant pay her bills i continue to pay,,,"
*** This is frustrating.... what the hell are you smoking to think that you have some right to live free in someone elses house???
"I know for a fact when owning your home you can deduct the taxes and such, so i need my stuff"
*** You are correct there.... a homeowner can deduct taxes and 'such'. As to your 'stuff' statement, HUH???
Okay, enough playing the 100 questions with you. Lets cut to the chase:
You say, "i have researched the civil relief act and it entitles stays for all judicial proceeding my husband is serving his country,"
*** Where does it say that??
You say, "according to the federal law anyone causing stress upon noticed of said deployment which she even called his work is punishable by jail and fines and or both"
*** Where does it say that??
You say, "i can petition the court to allow me to stop paying the rent, and prove that is has become a bruden to me,"
*** Where does it say that??