I Think This is Child Molestation!

[stealth2]

Not so incomprehensible if you realize this is a DUPLICATE POST...

But this one got more responses.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

But this one got more responses.

Only because you wagged your fluffy tail feathers

 

[rmet4nzkx]

OP, is this your child?????????????

 

[stealth2]

Only because you wagged your fluffy tail feathers

Hmmmph. Don't read well, eh? I have no tail feathers! I have a fluffy and wrathful tail!

 

[BL]

Hmmmph. Don't read well, eh? I have no tail feathers! I have a fluffy and wrathful tail!

Ha Hum ... A Squirrelly Rath .... It's funny a poster made a comment on my Sig . I replied I'd go round up Breeze and Stealth .

 

[casa]

You people have NO idea what can happen if you overreact on this. CS can take the girl...and any other children away from BOTH homes until they "figure it out". That can take many months and result in the child(ren) being placed in foster care. I have seen this happen dozens of times...especially if the other parent retaliates by saying that YOU are doing the molesting (or some other form of abuse).

You never know how CS will react....unless you're in Florida, where they apparently do nothing to protect children.

For crying out loud...GO TALK TO THE WOMAN. It's probably a cultural thing. I can't recall it with any of the PI women I've known during quite a few years in the military, but then I didn't exactly ask them. Make sure there's not a problem with your daughter's hygiene habits. Most American parents "walk away" from the bathroom after the kids seem to get it right...at about age 4. So, maybe she needs some refresher teaching. You're gonna have to do it again in a few short years when she reaches puberty anyway.

Talk to your EX. That's what mature parents are supposed to do----communicate!

I don't know what you are talking about- or if you are tainted by some negative experience in TX, but in CA- CPS doesn't just come yank a child from both parents without parents being abusive/neglectful. If Mom is notifying the proper authorities, she is not being either.

As far as cultural differences, as an X military wife I have friends from the Phillipines and they say this is as bizarre to them as it sounds to me! This child is 8 years old, not 2 or 3 or even 4.

I also agree with Ldij that giving a possible abuser warning is asking for trouble. If the stepmom is innocent she has nothing to worry about. (I've gone through repeated false allegations from my nuttyX to CPS- and if anything their investigating only helped my situation by providing professional documentation as to how well the children are actually being cared for, and the behavior of the nuttyX)

OP: I stand by my original advice.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Ha Hum ... A Squirrelly Rath .... It's funny a poster made a comment on my Sig . I replied I'd go round up Breeze and Stealth .

I've had so many remarks on my sig it doesn't affect me anymore.....

And I've already had the conversation with "Mary", sweet young thang that she is

 

[chrisdizz22]

i would first address the problem to both the step mom and father. and if it happens again, then i would call the police