tranquility
Senior Member
You are absolutely correct! I have heard that if you violate the IEP provisions, it can bite you back!
There is a grievance process in place, but I would like to resolve this issue diplomatically without any drama. I think if we can sit down and use our heads, this can be worked out. Thank you for all of your help, I will keep you posted! If any of you think of anything else, let me know!!!
I believe you are on the right track. But, words have power too. The "grievance process" you talk about is "due process". (Look to #8 and take a class for more jargon.) If you use the correct terms in discussions, it gives you more power. Talk about a grievance process and they might try to placate you; ask about due process and everyone at the table sits up just a little straighter with their hands properly folded. Since you will be here for the rest of your child's education, you might as well learn all the words now.