shootingstar75 said:
New York...you lost your daughter because horrible people like yourself are not good influences on young children or any person you come in contact with for that matter....the events that you set in to action in the recent past will earmark all future tradigy that occurs to you....I have never regreted anything I did in the past or present...I hope you never regret anything you do either.....
Many bioparents all over the world allow their children to be adopted, for many personal reasons. But it is usually a GIVING act. They are looking out for the long term best interest of their child and not necessarilly at just what their own personal feelings are. There are many children being raised by bioparents whose situation is NOT in the best interest of the child. Some of those kids might be better off with adoptive parents. I have friends whose children adopted from foster care or orphanages had HORRIBLE lives with their bioparents.
Bio isn't always better.
Just procreating does not assure one is capable, at least during that time in their life, of being the emotionally mature, financially secure, supportive, involved, caring parents that child deserves. My own choice to defer parenting until I was well-ready, and prepaired to "parent" allowed my child the benfit of having two loving, happy parents who can offer her a nice life. If I'd been 16 or 18 or even 23, at that point in my life, she would not have been able to get that from me, and might well have been better off with parents more like we are now.
Allowing an adoption is a loving act. You have no business dissing a bioparent who may be thinking of hwat is best for their child. Being adopted is NOT a bad thing. My child is very loved, happy and secure.
