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[Zephyr]

msdad- i read all of your posts, what I found to be the most disturbing was that never once, repeat, NOT ONCE! have you said you loved your son, miss your son, regret that you haven't been there, regret all the "firsts" that you've missed, regret just not being there to share yourself with your son.

I would really like to know if your only motivation in requesting visitation is to spite your ex?

I am not slamming you, just would like some clarification, please answer.

 

[msdad]

I can't regret the past, and I don't. I can only make my present and future better, and seeing this kid will clear my consious. I'm not doing it to upset my ex...that's just an added bonus.

 

[Zephyr]

I can't regret the past, and I don't. I can only make my present and future better, and seeing this kid will clear my consious. I'm not doing it to upset my ex...that's just an added bonus.

so you don't regret never being there for him? rather than calling him "my son" you refer to him as "this kid", and your only motivation is to clear your conscience?

not being mean here, but please don't do this to your child, he doesn't deserve this, he is in a loving family environment where he is thriving, why not just walk away? why disrupt his life? children can pick up on if someone is really into them or not, don't you think it will hurt him more to know that you have no real depth of emotion for him?

do something selfless, do something right, leave him alone with the only family he has ever known

 

[brisgirl825]

so you don't regret never being there for him? rather than calling him "my son" you refer to him as "this kid", and your only motivation is to clear your conscience?

not being mean here, but please don't do this to your child, he doesn't deserve this, he is in a loving family environment where he is thriving, why not just walk away? why disrupt his life? children can pick up on if someone is really into them or not, don't you think it will hurt him more to know that you have no real depth of emotion for him?

do something selfless, do something right, leave him alone with the only family he has ever known

What...and let the ex live happily and care about some brat he doesn't know? I should think not!

Whether he gets visitation or not, doesn't matter. This kid is old enough to understand what is going on and this guy can't make up for what he has done. There's no doubt that the child knows who his dad is.

 

[stealth2]

Glutton for punishment, eh?

 

[msdad]

I've heard that zillions of times on here.

He's NOT thriving in his current situation. His psychologist testified that my son told him that if he has to meet me he will beat me up and try to kill me. He's all the sudden "sick" with stomach aches all the time, and wetting the bed all of the sudden. That's not thriving...that's bad parenting on her part.

 

[msdad]

If its true that is...I don't belive his therapist's opinion that I should not see my son.

 

[brisgirl825]

I've heard that zillions of times on here.

He's NOT thriving in his current situation. His psychologist testified that my son told him that if he has to meet me he will beat me up and try to kill me. He's all the sudden "sick" with stomach aches all the time, and wetting the bed all of the sudden. That's not thriving...that's bad parenting on her part.

Um, no. I think that is your doing. Your interference is causing this probelm.

 

[stealth2]

I've heard that zillions of times on here.

He's NOT thriving in his current situation. His psychologist testified that my son told him that if he has to meet me he will beat me up and try to kill me. He's all the sudden "sick" with stomach aches all the time, and wetting the bed all of the sudden. That's not thriving...that's bad parenting on her part.

Nope. The only place to point fingers is at yourself.

 

[kathe70]

Re

undefined California You sound like a real dirt bag!!! We are talking about a childs life and well being here!!!!! A child who could possibly be screwed up for the rest of his life because you have a beef against his mother!!!! DONT PUT THE CHILD IN THE MIDDLE IT DOESNT SOLVE ANYTHING!!!CHILDREN ARE NOT PAWNS!!! you have a beef with her, not your child, keep him out of it!!!!!

 

[msdad]

Well ladies, I'n going to sign off for now, so you can man bash some other poor soul. I'll get back to you in October, after I meet my son.

 

[LdiJ]

I've heard that zillions of times on here.

He's NOT thriving in his current situation. His psychologist testified that my son told him that if he has to meet me he will beat me up and try to kill me. He's all the sudden "sick" with stomach aches all the time, and wetting the bed all of the sudden. That's not thriving...that's bad parenting on her part.

No, that isn't bad parenting...at least not on HER part. What that is, is a terrifed child who doesn't want his life disrupted by a selfish egoist jerk who is only doing it to make his mother miserable.

That counselor is going to make mincemeat out of you....and you will deserve every bit that you get in court.

 

[eyemback]

He's all the sudden "sick" with stomach aches all the time, and wetting the bed all of the sudden. That's not thriving...that's bad parenting on her part.

Your last sentence totally demonstrates how clueless you really are. God help this child.

 

[eyemback]

Well ladies, I'n going to sign off for now, so you can man bash some other poor soul. I'll get back to you in October, after I meet my son.

That poor kid.

 

[tigger22472]

So, msdad, how was your son's birthday?

What makes you think that your son's therapist isn't telling the truth?

What makes you think your son's psychological problems are your ex's fault?

What makes you think that the order for visitation won't be appealed AND won?

What makes you think that the courts will definately guarentee your mother to supervise?

The way I hear it "M" hates your guts due to YOUR actions and blames you AND your mother for disrupting his life! He has VERY valid reasons! I know more of the story then most here so you can't BS me!!