Indiana Parenting Time guidelines confusion

[tflanary]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
Hi, please help. My step son is 5 and in a private daycare/preschool. He is not yet in Kindergarten at a regular school. My husband and I believe the guidelines state we have him for my husband's birthday from 9am to 9pm since he is not in school. The mother is saying that preschool is a school and that we get him from 5pm to 8pm. I've searched online and cannot find anything either way. I really need to know if we are correct and where I can get that printed out to ask for makeup time in court.

 

[Zigner]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
Hi, please help. My step son is 5 and in a private daycare/preschool. He is not yet in Kindergarten at a regular school. My husband and I believe the guidelines state we have him for my husband's birthday from 9am to 9pm since he is not in school. The mother is saying that preschool is a school and that we get him from 5pm to 8pm. I've searched online and cannot find anything either way. I really need to know if we are correct and where I can get that printed out to ask for makeup time in court.

There is no "we." There is no way for you to ask for "makeup time" in court since you don't have any time to "makeup" in the first place.

This is your husband's issue.

And, just in case I'm accused of being non-responsive...I believe that the child is in school for the purposes of visitation.

 

[tflanary]

There is no "we." There is no way for you to ask for "makeup time" in court since you don't have any time to "makeup" in the first place.

This is your husband's issue.

And, just in case I'm accused of being non-responsive...I believe that the child is in school for the purposes of visitation.

Wow, you guys are being hateful. I love my step son and was asked to find answers online by my husband, as a step mom I am involved in this.

 

[CSO286]

Wow, you guys are being hateful. I love my step son and was asked to find answers online by my husband, as a step mom I am involved in this.

Except, that LEGALLY, no, you are not.

 

[tflanary]

I did not ask for rudeness here, simply asked a question which did not deserve the rude replies. If you do not know the answer to my question then you should not reply being hateful. That is unnecessary and childish. I am very supportive of my husband and his wishes to get all the parenting time he deserves since he is not a dead beat father. Are you?

Anyone on here that feels a person should not look out for the best interests of a child does not deserve to be here. This is not about you, not about me, it is about this precious little boy not getting to spend time with his father .

 

[Zigner]

I did not ask for rudeness here, simply asked a question which did not deserve the rude replies. If you do not know the answer to my question then you should not reply being hateful. That is unnecessary and childish. I am very supportive of my husband and his wishes to get all the parenting time he deserves since he is not a dead beat father. Are you?

He deserves everything he gets.

Good day.

 

[Silverplum]

I did not ask for rudeness here, simply asked a question which did not deserve the rude replies. If you do not know the answer to my question then you should not reply being hateful. That is unnecessary and childish. I am very supportive of my husband and his wishes to get all the parenting time he deserves since he is not a dead beat father. Are you?

Hostile and childish, as are so many who are told the legal truth on a legal board.

 

[tflanary]

I returned from perusing the IPTG to find that OP had "reported" my first response, which merely told her to disengage from her overinvolvement in someone else's divorced relationship.

Guess who is not interested in the OP any more?

He deserves everything he gets.

Good day.

What he deserves is full custody! That poor child is in danger every day with his mother. You jerks just don't understand. She overdoses him on medication that he does not need and lies about it in court. She gets two very large dogs AFTER finding out he is allergic and lies to the judge about it. She threatened to kill him and even though there are witnesses she says we have no proof. She tells him he can't have seconds on dinner and needs to watch his weight even though he is a healthy five year old because she is anorexic herself. She's nuts!

 

[CSO286]

I did not ask for rudeness here, simply asked a question which did not deserve the rude replies. If you do not know the answer to my question then you should not reply being hateful. That is unnecessary and childish. I am very supportive of my husband and his wishes to get all the parenting time he deserves since he is not a dead beat father. Are you?

Anyone on here that feels a person should not look out for the best interests of a child does not deserve to be here. This is not about you, not about me, it is about this precious little boy not getting to spend time with his father.

I most certainly am not a deadbeat father.

As to you--you appear to be an overstepping stepparent whose action can and most likely someday will result in your husband finding himself losing all or at least some of the parenting time that it is so obvious he holds as sacred.

 

[Zigner]

Personally, I take great offense when somebody makes even an off-hand, temper-tantrum fueled implication that I am a deadbeat father. My 3 kids (from the same mother) whom I maintained sole legal and physical custody of from early childhood on with no help, monetary or otherwise, from their mother would disagree with me being characterized as a deadbeat.


(Phew, that was a long sentence!)

 

[Zigner]

What he deserves is full custody! That poor child is in danger every day with his mother. You jerks just don't understand. She overdoses him on medication that he does not need and lies about it in court. She gets two very large dogs AFTER finding out he is allergic and lies to the judge about it. She threatened to kill him and even though there are witnesses she says we have no proof. She tells him he can't have seconds on dinner and needs to watch his weight even though he is a healthy five year old because she is anorexic herself. She's nuts!

...and now it comes out.

Fantastic way to boost your step-kid's self esteem there step-mom.

 

[CSO286]

Personally, I take great offense when somebody makes even an off-hand, temper-tantrum fueled implication that I am a deadbeat father. My 3 kids (from the same mother) whom I maintained sole legal and physical custody of from early childhood on with no help, monetary or otherwise, from their mother would disagree with me being characterized as a deadbeat.


(Phew, that was a long sentence!)

As would anyone else here who knows you well.

And I'm sure you know I am no deadbeat father, either.....

 

[tflanary]

I'm a junior advisor and I don't have any advice to give. Doesn't take much to pretend you know something online. I never asked if it was my problem or not did I? Thank you all for not wanting to help my husband, I'll be sure he knows just how many people out there truly don't care about the well being of his son.

 

[Zigner]

I'm a junior advisor and I don't have any advice to give. Doesn't take much to pretend you know something online. I never asked if it was my problem or not did I? Thank you all for not wanting to help my husband, I'll be sure he knows just how many people out there truly don't care about the well being of his son.

I would have been ecstatic to assist one of the legally involved parties to this matter. Unfortunately, none have logged on.

 

[tflanary]

I'll move on to where there are real men, real fathers, real compassionate people, you've all lost your mind.