LdiJ
Senior Member
Rushia said:Thank you, Your Honor. (Not flirting Mom, really! Judgy is all yours) I kinda figured that this was gonna get complicated. I just wondered if anyone knew or would have gone thru this too. I just don't want to waste my time on money or court when he'll never pay. I also weigh the option because eventually he will end up in jail and what good would that do our children (he does visit with them faithfully) Hopefully, he'll just TPR in July when we would qualify for the stepparent adoption and then we wouldn't have to worry about the support anymore.If he decides not to TPR, you bet my rear will be in court too. I'm tired of trying to be nice.
I think that you would be in a stronger position overall....even to convince him to TPR...if the arrearages were being tracked by the CSE. That would be one of the advantages of filing for contempt...you don't have to use an attorney.