No, not married at the time, but he was open and honest with me at the time we were seriously dating. He has fulfilled all requirements, gone through treatment program, passed all polygraph and is currently voluntarily helping men over come sex addictions in the best program of all called "The Conquer series". People do change. But, the 20 year punishment of SOR is still active. We can't visit my family in Calif. because they require a life time registry and we have no idea how we would get off their registry even if we are off in Oklahoma after 2024. We could not go on our cruise honeymoon because they did a check and found him on the SOR. We cannot move to where we want because there are restrictions where we are allowed. Yes, he wore shorts without underwear and exposed himself to an adult woman and should be punished, but after 15 years of never doing that or any other sexual offense again?