leaving the house

[jennie grimaldi]

Hi i live in Mass. my husband and i are divorcing he wouldnt move so i did in the best interest of the children because he was fighting me all the time....nothing legal has been done yet i just left on my own and we had agreements but he isnt doing as he said.....now i feel leaving is not in the best interest of the children he says things to them all the time. Can i move back to my house?

 

[LegalBeagle]

Hi i live in Mass. my husband and i are divorcing he wouldnt move so i did in the best interest of the children because he was fighting me all the time....nothing legal has been done yet i just left on my own and we had agreements but he isnt doing as he said.....now i feel leaving is not in the best interest of the children he says things to them all the time. Can i move back to my house?

Not unless he lets you.. Also, if you left the children behind (why?) and he is playing these games now, then you are in for a rough ride. You should seek legal assistance.

 

[jennie grimaldi]

The children stay here with me as they please back and forth we left that up to them, until i can find a place of my owm. Right now i am back at my parents. Actually my oldest is living with me now. Why did i leave....because he was playing fairly we talked about all terms so i felt it would be ok (stupid me)i couldnt really afford to keep the house and he wouldnt move...and the fighting was very hard for the kids. They even told me just go where ever you can to get away. I didnt want to make him pay support and pay bills etc....i tried to be NICE about it all because he said i could ruin him financialy. I felt bad. But now hes playing games and says all kinds of things about me to my kids and upsets them. He has a girlfreind there alot also (not overnight) i do not feel hes doing whats in the best interest of my children so i do not care anymore about his finacial state.

 

[Ambr]

this happens all of the time.

if things have progressed so badly that you have to divorce from your spouse - why on earth, do we ever believe them when they say that the divorce will be smooth. do this and do that and everything will be okay. we won't fight on anything and it will be better for the kids.

why do we believe that? if we were able to get along this well, there would be no need for the divorce in the first place. and it always works out that someone changed their mind somewhere and starts to play dirty. and in the long run - the kids are the ones that are hurt.