Letter from Ex wifes attorney/boss

[shockergeek]

Lol...yeah I realized what you was saying a few minutes ago. Just didn't have time to post back on here.

 

[torimac]

This whole thread reads like a Monty Python skit. Good grief, what a communication mishap.

 

[mistoffolees]

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So when I petition the court don't tell the judge I took custody.

Who's on First?


Let me try to make this clear.

As far as your ex is concerned, you never discuss custody at all. You simply say "the kids are welcome to stay here whenever you have other things to do-they're welcome any time. Just let me know when you want me to watch them.

When it gets closer to end of summer, you say "you know, the kids have been in this school for a while and all their friends are here, why don't we let them stay in the same school and they can stay with me temporarily?"

WITHOUT EVER DISCUSSING CHILD SUPPORT OR CUSTODY, you continue to send her the child support check ever month or week or whatever is required. Do not discuss any changes at all with Mom.

Then, after 6-9 months, you file in court for primary residential custody based on status quo. That should be the first time that ex ever hears the word custody from your lips.

 

[shockergeek]

Ok..im on second now.
I understand completly....basically be mr nice guy to her and make her believe im helping her out.

 

[Zigner]

Ok..im on second now.
I understand completly....basically be mr nice guy to her and make her believe im helping her out.

Or, be Mr Nice Guy in order to help the kids. It doesn't HAVE to be done just to stick it to her.

 

[shockergeek]

It has nothing to do with sticking her. Its about what's doing fair and right. Her and her attorney flat out lied on the child support worksheet. That is why I asked for a review.