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Esimon1
Guest
no- not all biomoms are bad, this we know, since most of us are also biomoms too. You just can't stalk your ex's spouse on the site, that's all. One is only a PBFH, if you constantly follow the step,( or biomom in rare cases) on various sites, just to try to get nasty digs in, bash them, etc. and use their real names and other personal info. when they only want good advice,
Then, if you repeatedly post crap about them personally, even after several other members retaliate and counter-attack you, and you don't stop, THEN- you are a certified PBFH. As you will see, we have one such case. I hope that sums it up.
But yes, I have also known steps to be the PBFH, (in real life-not on the ssss site). ( I personally like to refer to my nephew's stepmom as PCFFH, or Psycho control freak from hell.) but that's another story. Anyway, have fun.
Then, if you repeatedly post crap about them personally, even after several other members retaliate and counter-attack you, and you don't stop, THEN- you are a certified PBFH. As you will see, we have one such case. I hope that sums it up.
But yes, I have also known steps to be the PBFH, (in real life-not on the ssss site). ( I personally like to refer to my nephew's stepmom as PCFFH, or Psycho control freak from hell.) but that's another story. Anyway, have fun.
lcollins said:
the password is...Yeah right like I am gonna tell everyone!!!!!! HEHEHE!!!!!!!!!!!!
However, you don't need a password to chat, just need it to view message board. And if you come in, post a message on the chatroom so that we know it is you and not someone posing as you or post one on here. But then if you post one on here someone could read it and run into the SSSS room and log in as you, so nevermind.
Grace_Adler
Senior Member
ryry's mom, you ain't got no sense..LOL!
LMSP, I couldn't figure out how to get this contraption to run off the fumes from my still dang it! It ain't workin'!
I thought PBFH referred to ANY female who tried to make your life a living hell.
LMSP, I couldn't figure out how to get this contraption to run off the fumes from my still dang it! It ain't workin'!
I thought PBFH referred to ANY female who tried to make your life a living hell.
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VanillaBean2u
Guest
I'd love to participate too! Do I need to fill out an application? <G>
Esimom....
who could you possibly be talking about???? hmmm
ryry-If someone wants to go to such lengths (hmmm-who could I be talking about again???lol) to chat with us, why not let them?
we all know each other pretty well by now, so if someone poses as one of us-so be it....
pretty sad state to be in though, dont ya think? a lying pbfh, that's a novel idea-BAWHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
who could you possibly be talking about???? hmmm
ryry-If someone wants to go to such lengths (hmmm-who could I be talking about again???lol) to chat with us, why not let them?
we all know each other pretty well by now, so if someone poses as one of us-so be it....
pretty sad state to be in though, dont ya think? a lying pbfh, that's a novel idea-BAWHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
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Lil Miss Smarty Panties
Guest
Re: Biovent
The SSSS website isn't exclusively for stepmoms to "vent" it was made as a joke but turned into something else. We have step moms and biomoms in there and we all manage to get along fine. It's just a place to have fun. You are welcome to come in anytime.
And PBFH doesn't necessarily apply to just a bio mom. it just happens to apply in our cases
vstax said:
The SSSS website isn't exclusively for stepmoms to "vent" it was made as a joke but turned into something else. We have step moms and biomoms in there and we all manage to get along fine. It's just a place to have fun. You are welcome to come in anytime.
And PBFH doesn't necessarily apply to just a bio mom. it just happens to apply in our cases
Re: Esimom....
If someone poses as one of us it is sick! I don't want anyone posing as me or anyone else, there are things I tell you guys that I really don't think anyone else should know. I am a fairly private person and I enjoy having my group of friends and that is it. If someone I don't like wants to chat with me why should I let them??
I am sorry, I am really getting sick of this whole thing! My head is spinning. I have things in my life that I don't want cookie to know about and I don't really care to know about her life either.
This forum is really turing into crap lately! Come on people, lets stop posting our trivial things on here keep it to LMSP's site, I think it is better for everyone.
lovingwife said:
ryry-If someone wants to go to such lengths (hmmm-who could I be talking about again???lol) to chat with us, why not let them?
we all know each other pretty well by now, so if someone poses as one of us-so be it....
pretty sad state to be in though, dont ya think? a lying pbfh, that's a novel idea-BAWHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
If someone poses as one of us it is sick! I don't want anyone posing as me or anyone else, there are things I tell you guys that I really don't think anyone else should know. I am a fairly private person and I enjoy having my group of friends and that is it. If someone I don't like wants to chat with me why should I let them??
I am sorry, I am really getting sick of this whole thing! My head is spinning. I have things in my life that I don't want cookie to know about and I don't really care to know about her life either.
This forum is really turing into crap lately! Come on people, lets stop posting our trivial things on here keep it to LMSP's site, I think it is better for everyone.
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trollhunter1
Guest
ryry....(from both trollhunter and LW)
I disagree about this forum turning into crap lately and we all know kooky reads here, so, many posts are directed, although indirectly (does that make sense?-lol) at her..
because of all the **it she has pulled in SSSS chat (being an a** as herself, posing as me...etc.....) and the things she posted on that board (which she is now banned from)-and let's not forget all the **it that has gone on over here....well, I think posters, like myself, are sick of her....
remember, this has been going on for about 2 or so years with me-her following me from board to board (sparc, prairielaw) but for other posters, her multiple personalities/anger/disorientation/etc....is something new...
I found out long ago that someone like this cannot be helped unless they admit there is a problem...so, I think all of us, the posters anyway-are taunting and teasing her to make her mad enough to get some help.....
so, yes, we get off topic somewhat, at times and yes, some of us are posting things on here, on purpose, to get some reaction....
but, in the end, if she ends up seeking help, wouldn't all this off topic posting be worth it?
IF she seeks help, would be much better for the kids, no? I think if she really cared for those kids, this internet stuff would not be so important to her. Kind of sad to think that someones whole life revolves around what is taking place in the cyber world, huh?
just some thoughts....
I disagree about this forum turning into crap lately and we all know kooky reads here, so, many posts are directed, although indirectly (does that make sense?-lol) at her..
because of all the **it she has pulled in SSSS chat (being an a** as herself, posing as me...etc.....) and the things she posted on that board (which she is now banned from)-and let's not forget all the **it that has gone on over here....well, I think posters, like myself, are sick of her....
remember, this has been going on for about 2 or so years with me-her following me from board to board (sparc, prairielaw) but for other posters, her multiple personalities/anger/disorientation/etc....is something new...
I found out long ago that someone like this cannot be helped unless they admit there is a problem...so, I think all of us, the posters anyway-are taunting and teasing her to make her mad enough to get some help.....
so, yes, we get off topic somewhat, at times and yes, some of us are posting things on here, on purpose, to get some reaction....
but, in the end, if she ends up seeking help, wouldn't all this off topic posting be worth it?
IF she seeks help, would be much better for the kids, no? I think if she really cared for those kids, this internet stuff would not be so important to her. Kind of sad to think that someones whole life revolves around what is taking place in the cyber world, huh?
just some thoughts....
Re: ryry....(from both trollhunter and LW)
I do think that this forum has turned into crap lately. I also think that the SSSS website was meant for the things that are being discussed on here....for christs sakes this woman is 36 years old and does not think she needs help!!! I understand you think you are helping but really is it? Has she stopped calling you? No she probably calls more than ever! I honestly think in your situation the courts NEED to step in and do something about the crap going on in your life, that seems to be the only way she will listen.
And as for trying to get people to seek help, remember there was a really good post on here that gave people info on seeking help for mental illness and it provided tons of info, well obviously it insulted someone and it got deleted!!!!
I just don't get it! We can come on here and post, "i hate you" threads and it is fine but post mental help numbers and it gets deleted!!!!!!!
We all, me included, need to STOP being so damn moral based on here and get back to the legal stuff. There are a ton of people on here who need help legally. I think Lil Miss set up a great site for the things going on right now in peoples lives. I like the friendships I have formed because of it BUT I don't think it should always be dragged into this forum.
Do you realize that this forum got an award for being one of the best legal sites? How can that be anymore? I look at the first page and see maybe 4 legal questions with a few responses. Yes it is more fun to get into a debate with people and argue till we are blue in the face, but damn!!! It does no good anymore, so lets just stop!
Trollhunter, if you want to make someone seek help keep posting the kinds of questions like the welfare one. Or how about one that says, "if my ex moves to Seattle and doesn't take the kids, can i get full custody?" Those types of things, they will provide answers that can help everyone no matter who they are and it will get the point across to the person it is intended for.
No offense in my postings, just my opinion.
\trollhunter1 said:
I do think that this forum has turned into crap lately. I also think that the SSSS website was meant for the things that are being discussed on here....for christs sakes this woman is 36 years old and does not think she needs help!!! I understand you think you are helping but really is it? Has she stopped calling you? No she probably calls more than ever! I honestly think in your situation the courts NEED to step in and do something about the crap going on in your life, that seems to be the only way she will listen.
And as for trying to get people to seek help, remember there was a really good post on here that gave people info on seeking help for mental illness and it provided tons of info, well obviously it insulted someone and it got deleted!!!!
I just don't get it! We can come on here and post, "i hate you" threads and it is fine but post mental help numbers and it gets deleted!!!!!!!
We all, me included, need to STOP being so damn moral based on here and get back to the legal stuff. There are a ton of people on here who need help legally. I think Lil Miss set up a great site for the things going on right now in peoples lives. I like the friendships I have formed because of it BUT I don't think it should always be dragged into this forum.
Do you realize that this forum got an award for being one of the best legal sites? How can that be anymore? I look at the first page and see maybe 4 legal questions with a few responses. Yes it is more fun to get into a debate with people and argue till we are blue in the face, but damn!!! It does no good anymore, so lets just stop!
Trollhunter, if you want to make someone seek help keep posting the kinds of questions like the welfare one. Or how about one that says, "if my ex moves to Seattle and doesn't take the kids, can i get full custody?" Those types of things, they will provide answers that can help everyone no matter who they are and it will get the point across to the person it is intended for.
No offense in my postings, just my opinion.