Mentally abused 15y seeking emancipation

[runnerchic1490]

What is the name of your state? Maryland

I am 15 years old and live with my mother, father and 8 year old sister. For as long as I can remember I have been the target of mental/emotional abuse by my father. He has punched me on a few occasions, but never hard enough to leave a bruise. I have had severe depression for years and have been in therapy on and off since 3rd grade (I am now in 10th). When I was in 8th grade I attempted to kill myself to end the pain and abuse I have endured for years. My father has a severe rage problem. He explodes frequently and with no warning and little or no provocation. I shake and tear whenever he is near me and dream about him killing me. I am never relaxed and suffer from severe anxiety and have been diagnosed with temporary disassociative disorders. I have been seeing a therapist steadily since my suicide attempt and have maintained a healthy mental status. However, lately his rage has become worse and worse and I have begun frightening myself with repeated suicidal thoughts. I need to get out.
What are my rights and the laws pertaining to me and emancipating myself or seeking alternative custody by a family friend or relative? Also, what are my chances of a court ruling in my favor?

 

[SlashAndBleed]

I have attempted to get out of this home based soley on emotional/mental abuse. However, I was told that emotional abuse cannot be proven. I'm in 10th grade as well, and I have attempted suicide. I'm clinically depressed, and I have acute post truamatic stress disorder from the events that have happened to me in this house. As I've learned here, emancipation is being able to support yourself financially, 100%. If you can do that, you can be emancipated.

 

[cbg]

As far as emancipation goes, your chances are zero. Maryland, like almost every other state, will not emancipate a 15 year old.

As far as alternate custody goes, that MIGHT be a possibility, but that starts with your reporting what is happening to you. Have you told anyone in authority? CPS? A school counselor? Your pastor?

You need to make someone aware of what is happening if you want to look into alternate placement.

 

[5xMomVA]

I agree with cbg honey. You don't need emanciaption, you need clinical support. Sweety, it sounds like you have gone along with whatever has been offered but it's not enough. This is what I honesly suggest........ You have mentioned suicidal thoughts, I honestly suggest that you get a ride from a friend or walk to the nearest public hospital to you. Walk into the emergency room and tell them EXACTLY what you have posted here. They will not only give you a safe place to stay but the psycological assistance that you need. You are too younge and fragile to be on your own right now, please get the help that you need. Hugs!!!!!!

 

[Wolflmg]

Kido you have to tell someone. Does your mom know this has been happening? Has your father ever been abusive towards your mother or sister?
My adive do what the past two posters have told you to do, it's the best thing for you to do. Your dad needs help, if he is being abusives towards you theres a chance he could start doing the same to your sister putting her in danger. Have you told the consouler about this when you go to theropy?

 

[eyeinthesky20]

I am sorry you have been treated so badly. Your father's problems are HIS, and you shouldnt be made to feel bad about yourself. Have you told your therapist about what is happening and is there a family member that you feel would listen and be able to take you in. Your parents would have to consent to this. The other alternative is to report the abuse anonomously but they may or may not remove you from the home and may require your dad to get help. If your therapist feels you are in danger they have responsibility to report it. Hope this helps and good luck