Mom Wont Allow Visitation

[stepmom4ever]

You STILL don't get it!
"WE" won't have to wait for ANYTHING. The child's FATHER will have to wait!

FINE, THEN HE WILL HAVE TO WAIT! BOY, YOU GUYS ARE HARSH . YOU ACT AS IF HE'S NOT MARRIED. MARRIAGE EQUALS FAMILY, I DO EXSIST DO I? I DONT WANT HER CHILD! MY HUSBAND WILL HAVE TO WAIT, OKAY.

 

[mommyof4]

No it's not mental, he's my husband and he married into my family. So his child is my family through marriage, but I'm not going into that. Thanks for the advice EVERYONE! WE WILL WAIT, SIMPLE, NOTHING WE CAN DO

Oh Good God...

He did NOT marry into your family. He married YOU. That's just a picture I don't want to think about.

This child is NOT your family through marriage.

Repeat after me:

I don't have any connection to this child. I don't have any connection to this child. I don't have any connection to this child.

My FAMILY sure as heck doesn't have any connection to this child.

This child does not exist for me. This child is a figment of my imagination. I have never heard of this child. Child? What child?

I need to contact an atty and get out of this marriage while I am still young, unencumbered, and have the time to do anything my little heart desires.

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Let me make this as clear as it can possibly be made. I (and every other poster on this forum) have as much right to have ANYTHING to do with this child as you do.

 

[stealth2]

No it's not mental, he's my husband and he married into my family. So his child is my family through marriage, but I'm not going into that. Thanks for the advice EVERYONE! WE WILL WAIT, SIMPLE, NOTHING WE CAN DO

GAWD WOMAN! Are you really this dense? YOU are a legal stranger to this child and always will be. Get over yourself.

 

[Just Blue]

FINE, THEN HE WILL HAVE TO WAIT! BOY, YOU GUYS ARE HARSH . YOU ACT AS IF HE'S NOT MARRIED. MARRIAGE EQUALS FAMILY, I DO EXSIST DO I? I DONT WANT HER CHILD! MY HUSBAND WILL HAVE TO WAIT, OKAY.

Okay folks!! It is OFFICIAL!! stepmom4ever IS dumber than dirt!!

 

[mommyof4]

Okay folks!! It is OFFICIAL!! stepmom4ever IS dumber than dirt!!

You do realize that you just insulted all of the pulverized rocks, right?

 

[Just Blue]

You do realize that you just insulted all of the pulverized rocks, right?

Wait a sec...I said DUMBER than dirt!! Not dumb AS dirt!

 

[mommyof4]

Wait a sec...I said DUMBER than dirt!! Not dumb AS dirt!

Oh, okay. Mia culpa.

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

Just don't say that the law isn't fair with regard to dads because dad did this to himself -- don't you agree??

Oh, I think that the only way that Dad did this to himself was to allow stepmom4ever anywhere near this. So, HE did it indirectly, and SHE did it directly.

On the other hand, Dad agreed because Mom was p.o.’d(and rightfully so), and he didn’t want to further rock the boat. So he gave up.

Ok, I change my mind. They(Dad AND SMom) are equally responsible.

 

[stepmom4ever]

name calling is not called for. I never disrespected anyone on this site, please don't disrespect me. Thank you

 

[Just Blue]

Oh, okay. Mia culpa.

I forgive you....

 

[mommyof4]

name calling is not called for. I never disrespected anyone on this site, please don't disrespect me. Thank you

Nobody called you any names. We (well, someone did and I agreed) said you are lacking in intelligence.


That's not an insult. It's a blatant statment of fact. Honesty can be cruel, but there ya' go.

 

[Just Blue]

name calling is not called for. I never disrespected anyone on this site, please don't disrespect me. Thank you

Yes. You did. With you total lack of comprehension. Either you are deliberately being stupid or you are not gifted with even half a brain. Go find an attorney to answer your questions. We tried. You refuse to listen. Go away now.

 

[Golfball]

name calling is not called for. I never disrespected anyone on this site, please don't disrespect me. Thank you

A closed mouth gathers no foot.

That being said, you are appearing just a touch obstinate on an issue that has been very simply explained to you, some frustration on the part of others with your obstinacy would be understandable.

 

[Zigner]

...some frustration on the part of others with your obstinacy would be understandable.

Yes, to any reasonably intelligent person...

 

[Silverplum]

I stopped replying a couple of pages ago, because it's not worth my time.

Poster, you are in Dire Need of a book on stepparenting. Articles, books, classes, restraining orders, therapy...whatever it takes. I speak as a stepparent, myself.